I'm less than a week post. I texlaxed last weekend. Its so nice to be able to feel water on my scalp again.
I'm starting to reconsider this "transition" or this "extended stretch". It's been 15 months since my last relaxer.
I will never wear my hair in its natural state. I'm starting to feel as though I'm doing more harm by straightening my hair every two weeks vs applying a relaxer every four months.
I'm really contemplating going back. I'm not about that wig life. I tried it and it's not me at all. I'm not about that weave life either. I only like braids but I can't live in braids for the remainder of my life... Ugh!
I literally could have written this post. This was EXACTLY my thoughts. I wound up relaxing and in so glad I did. I've gotten heat damage before and that hair versus my relaxed hair I could tell that the heat damaged hair was just that...damaged. My relaxed hair was just fine minding its own business. It was happy as long as it had some type of protein and other than that it was good to go. Also my style choices opened up and I didn't have to base everything around my hair.
For example if I didn't do my natural hair the night before I would have to do a puff. I get lazier at night. Once I relaxed I didn't do my hair last night and woke up and was able to easily get a curling iron and there some pretty curls in my hair in 15 mins. I missed that so much. I was walking around with a puff 90% of the time. I couldn't do it anymore I like my haired layed honey and switched up
Lol... Hair layed. I know what you mean. I'm pretty sure I'm gonna relax again. Just undecided on when. I agree with everything you said in your post. I'm glad someone understands my story. Thanks for sharing
Lol... Hair layed. I know what you mean. I'm pretty sure I'm gonna relax again. Just undecided on when. I agree with everything you said in your post. I'm glad someone understands my story. Thanks for sharing
Back to the dark side?
I think when I relax my hair it'll be as close to bone straight as I can get it without damaging my hair lol.
Thanks! I'll definitely keep it in mind. My current relaxer (Vitale Sensitive Scalp) seems to have gotten "weaker" and didn't really relax my hair.Design Essentials Sensitive Scalp. Love that stuff!
How many weeks post relaxer are you right now? About 5-6 weeks
When is your next touch up? I don't really keep up, whenever my hair starts breaking and shedding a lot....about every 4-5 months
What relaxer will you use? Phytospecific Index 1
Are you going to a salon or will you self-relax? I self relax. Been doing it for years, aside from my 3-4 years being natural.