Well, first of all congratulations on your engagement!
I've known of some couples who were married at young ages and are still together. Even my mom was married at 22, and had me at 23 years old...so go figure! Unfortunately, my mom and dad didn't stay together...
But that's a totally different topic altogether!
I think however that I echo the same sentiment as some others on the board. In a way, I do feel like you are a bit too young, but I don't know you or your maturity level, so I can't really say for sure. I just know that 22 is usually around the age that some young people are either still in college getting an education, or... they are JUST graduating college and are about to start their adult lives.
I look back to when I was 22 and now that I'm a few years older, I can't even imagine being married at 22!
But....I'm not everybody, and sometimes you just find that special someone at a different time in your life.
Just please take time to really KNOW yourself and the person you are engaged to. I don't know when your wedding date is, but hopefully it is in the distant future so that you can have some time to go through pre-marital counseling, and even get to know yourself better.
I'm in my late 20's and I'm
STILL learning things about myself that I didn't know.
So....I say, it's great that you two are wanting to share a special bond for the rest of your lives together.
But please, take it slow...and like others mentioned...PLEASE wait until you have kids! My sister got married 2 years ago, and she STILL wants to wait and additional 4 or 5 years before she and her husband have kids.
My only concern however is not really how young YOU are, but really how young your fiance is. You're 23 and your fiance is 22. Now...I'm not knocking 22 year old guys, but men in general tend to mature slower than women, and at 22 I'm not sure how mature this guy is. If he were 28 and you were 23 then I would feel a little differently. At least I would feel like....okay, he's 28 years old, he's probably stable, has lived his life, is past his "player days", and has really grown as a man and is ready to really settle down. But the fact that he's younger than you...(22 yrs old at that!) is just a little cause for concern IMO.
BUT! Sometimes life's challenges can be overcome through love, patience, communication, and understanding. So...maybe your friends and family just want you to be happy and really desire you to see that maybe you two are BOTH a bit too young right now.
Are these "friends" peers of yours around your same age? OR, are they older? Because if your friends and family members are older than you, then
most likely they are not "jealous", but they just have a lot more life experience and realize the hard work and sacrifice that goes into marriage. And it may be more so the age factor that they are concerned with. More than likely, they just care about you and don't want to see you go through a hard time.
Like I said for me personally, I have grown just in a few years from where I was at 22 and where I am now. I even have a different car, different job, different friends, different life, etc NOW than I did just at 22. It's crazy! I've traveled more places, seen more things, experienced heartbreak, gone through and learned a LOT about relationships, etc in just a few years. What I want NOW is sooo much different from what I wanted when I was 22. So...imagine if that minor outward stuff (jobs, car, friends, etc.) can change for me in just those several years, think about how
DIFFERENT a person you can be even emotionally after a few short years.
So, anyway...I wish you and your fiance well with your future married life, but those are just some things to keep in mind!