Vonnieluvs08
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Got into an argument with a friend about me taking a vow of celibacy until I get married and that since I am trying to get my life in order (God, career, housing) I'm not dating right now was stupid. He said that women think that by giving up something (sex, shopping, etc) then God will send them a husband. That we are trying to do some exchange or deal with God. That it isn't logical to stop doing things (dating, socializing, shopping, having sex) and think that God will give women a husband. I told him I made this decision because I'm trying to live a Christian life and walk with God and in order to do that I need to stop doing certain things and thinking certain ways.
Ladies do you feel that you are bargaining or making a deal with God by giving up something you feel is holding you back from finding a husband?
My faith tells me that I am giving my life, all of my life to Jesus which includes finding my husband and that in order to do that I have to walk a Christian life and abide by the Bible. However there are times that I feel like I'm making "deals" since I've sinned in multiple ways and now I am asking him to help me and I'll stop doing evil deeds to show I'm serious. I know that we must confess and repent and ask to be forgiven and that I can only help myself through Jesus and his word. I just found this to be a new struggle to pray about.
Ladies do you feel that you are bargaining or making a deal with God by giving up something you feel is holding you back from finding a husband?
My faith tells me that I am giving my life, all of my life to Jesus which includes finding my husband and that in order to do that I have to walk a Christian life and abide by the Bible. However there are times that I feel like I'm making "deals" since I've sinned in multiple ways and now I am asking him to help me and I'll stop doing evil deeds to show I'm serious. I know that we must confess and repent and ask to be forgiven and that I can only help myself through Jesus and his word. I just found this to be a new struggle to pray about.