LadyRaider
Well-Known Member
My brother is older and in a long term engagement right now. But he is paying for quarterly trips to visit her (in another state) he pays for dinner when they go out... with her daughter, her daughter's boyfriend and the son and his girlfriend. Of course he pays for his hotel when he's there. She likes to go places with him... like small junkets to other cities, and those miles are put on his rental car gas bill.
He's paying for her monthly gym membership and he pays for his fiance's cell phone. I think he's paying for the daughter's cell phone as well.
He's paying to fly the son to dallas to see Texas Stadium and Kenny Chessney (sp?) as well as the daughter's graduation cruise.
He helped buy the son (over 20) an ipad.
It's a long engagement, no date set. I remember that he gave her the ring in December of 2010.
I'm sure there are plenty of things he's buying that I don't know about.
This doesn't seem appropriate. The engagement is getting so long that I'm getting worried that the family is taking advantage. Then again, though my brother has no money, he likes playing the big shot. There's every chance they think he's loaded so they think it's cool to load him down with expenses.
He says it is he that is putting off setting a date because he has yet to get a job where she lives. But he's the type that if she insisted, he would go along.
I almost told him today that she "doesn't have to buy the cow, she's getting the milk through the fence." That is, all the advantages of having a second income she is getting right now. Why get married at all?
I don't know, though. What do y'all think?
He's paying for her monthly gym membership and he pays for his fiance's cell phone. I think he's paying for the daughter's cell phone as well.
He's paying to fly the son to dallas to see Texas Stadium and Kenny Chessney (sp?) as well as the daughter's graduation cruise.
He helped buy the son (over 20) an ipad.
It's a long engagement, no date set. I remember that he gave her the ring in December of 2010.
I'm sure there are plenty of things he's buying that I don't know about.
This doesn't seem appropriate. The engagement is getting so long that I'm getting worried that the family is taking advantage. Then again, though my brother has no money, he likes playing the big shot. There's every chance they think he's loaded so they think it's cool to load him down with expenses.
He says it is he that is putting off setting a date because he has yet to get a job where she lives. But he's the type that if she insisted, he would go along.
I almost told him today that she "doesn't have to buy the cow, she's getting the milk through the fence." That is, all the advantages of having a second income she is getting right now. Why get married at all?
I don't know, though. What do y'all think?