leona2025
Well-Known Member
Ok so I've been dating this guy. Really sweet and nice. We've been on about 7 official dates and like 4 just hanging out type dates. That's really good for me because I usually never go on second dates with guys.
Anyway so he paid for 9 dates and I decided on that 10th date I would offer to take him to Saltgrass. All worked out well, but I kinda feel like I made a mistake in doing that because he asked if that meant we would be taking turns paying for dates. I said no. I don't want him to feel like he has to pay all the time, but I'm kinda opposed to the whole my turn your turn thing.
Second, gift giving. For Valentines day he sent me flowers and took me out to dinner. On a later date he spoke about me not getting him anything for Vday. I almost said that we hadn't know each other long enough for vday gifts, but then I remembered the flowers and just looked at him like . I mean what would have been an appropriate gift? A card?
So then he told me to wear something pink on the day I took him to Saltgrass. He he bought me a really pretty pink Swarovski crystal necklace. I love it, but now I feel like I have to get him something too. I don't know what type of gift to get at so early on in dating.
Any advice about any of this please?
Anyway so he paid for 9 dates and I decided on that 10th date I would offer to take him to Saltgrass. All worked out well, but I kinda feel like I made a mistake in doing that because he asked if that meant we would be taking turns paying for dates. I said no. I don't want him to feel like he has to pay all the time, but I'm kinda opposed to the whole my turn your turn thing.
Second, gift giving. For Valentines day he sent me flowers and took me out to dinner. On a later date he spoke about me not getting him anything for Vday. I almost said that we hadn't know each other long enough for vday gifts, but then I remembered the flowers and just looked at him like . I mean what would have been an appropriate gift? A card?
So then he told me to wear something pink on the day I took him to Saltgrass. He he bought me a really pretty pink Swarovski crystal necklace. I love it, but now I feel like I have to get him something too. I don't know what type of gift to get at so early on in dating.
Any advice about any of this please?