What about this poor guy's feelings?
I am not abusing him or hurting him, he already is aware that I am not really feeling him, but he really likes me so for me to do this would make him very happy. He thinks he can make me love him.
I feel bad for dude..and remember the Karma is a beeyatch...whatever you do can be done to you..so how would u feel if someone was practicing and playing with ur feelings..thats wrong on so many levels..smh..
I've had this done to me, and you are right it did hurt, but it has only made me stronger. I am tired of worrying about how other people feel. I just want to enjoy life and live in the moment. I won't be playing with his feeling. I just want more experience in dating so I will know what I want and what I don't want in a relationship.
OP, your complexion in your siggy is
I love it! And your hair (from what is shown)! And I like your eyebrows too!
omg that was so homo
sorry, I just had to comment!
I say go for it! You may end up developing real feelings for him!
Oh, and no homo lol
Yay, thanks! My brows are my favorite thing about me but my hair is a mess in that pic girl lol...pics can be deceiving LOL
morally wrong.
and you'll just dump him if someone better comes along?
to me, it's settling and kind of desperate, tbh. and not fair to either of you.
and "guys do it all the time" is a lame excuse. as if that ever sounded valid in any situation ever.
Hmm...I did wonder if it was settling, and you are right it is a bit desperate, but I thought it was a win-win situation. The area I live in doesn't really have much options, I won't be able to move until I graduate (another 2.5 years from now). The way I see it he gets the girl, I get the experience. Maybe I should give more background info... I WAS NOT allowed to date until I got to college so I am not totally comfortable dating because I have little experience. I have a good head on my shoulders and usually avoid guys who I know will bring drama, b.s., lies and I am also picky in the sense of looks. I prefer guys who are taller than me, and I am quite the giant (exaggerating I am 5'9). This current guy is decent but he is shorter than me and I am pretty sure he is only trying to date me because he thinks I am cute (I am just not feeling him) he is funny though and we are friends.
I think we all have alterior motives for dating. What makes it morally wrong for me to date someone because my desire to have more experience versus someone who dates someone for looks/money because lets face it, when you start dating someone you can't say it was their personality that got you interested because more often than not you had to get to know them.
I don't get it. If you don't like him, why would you be his GF? Just to say you have a BF?
erplexed
Also......95% of the time a woman (in general) gives "guys do it, so why can't I?" as an excuse, they fail to realize that they are unable to emotionally detach themselves like the poor excuses for men that they are referring to. Someone is gonna get hurt, and it just could be you.
Yes, all BFs are practice, but there is usually (SHOULD be, IMO) some kind of connection/attraction that creates the basis of that relationship.
It wouldn't be just to say I had a BF, its more to gauge my likes and dislikes...so I will make less errors. I am sorry, I suppose I disregarding the fact that this is life and not work. I always believe practice makes perfect.
And its not that I completely dislike him, I just don't find him physically appealing and he is slightly clingy, but other than that he is a pretty cool guy
I just want to close my eyes and jump into life instead of being so level headed all the time.