Hairsnob
Deep Thinker
Dating sucks!! I just need to vent so forgive me if this is long.
Met a guy at the Dunkin Donuts across from my job one morning. He wasn't exactly my type but seemed nice. I was rushing back to work so after he introduced himself and all he asked for my number and just as I was giving it to him he started stuttering... and BAD too . That completely turned me off since I already was on the fence about him. He said he'd call me later that night.
I said oh gosh, I hope he doesn't call. Well, I got my wish and he didn't call. He TEXTS me instead about 10:30pm!! Ugh! It gets worse, he texts: "coffee tomorrow? What time is good for u?
I completely ignored his text figuring he'll come to his senses and PICK UP THE PHONE to properly ask me out over the phone. He didn't. Instead, the next MORNING he decides to call saying this: "Hello Hairsnob, I don't know if you got my message but I was hoping we could meet at Dunkin Donuts for coffee. Let me know.. blah blah blah"
I totally ignored his voice message because he is out of his mind thinking I'm gonna meet for breakfast at a WALK-IN Dunkin Donuts???? I was so insulted!! There are NO tables or chairs anyway, just enough room to order your food and all. What were we going to do, stand outside and talk or even worse, sit in his car?
So he continued to text for a few mornings and ask me to meet him for coffee. I'd ignore him. And first of all, I DON'T EVEN DRINK COFFEE!! So after a few days of this I finally put my big girl panties on and text'd him back saying: "Hi Al, got your msg and sorry for not getting back to you. It's bad timing and I won't be able to see you so I don't want to waste your time. It's complicated... Hairsnob"
He text'd back saying "?????" and called again a few times. I ignored them because I thought my response was good enough to save face for him but I guess guys don't get "hints". For the next two weeks he continued to text me saying "good morning". I have to totally ignore him because if I say it back it feeds into him. I know I'm kinda mean but I just CAN'T!!
Anyway, this goes to say, this SAME guy who has a good job and all is chasing me and probably has some woman who is chasing him that he isn't paying any mind. I basically gave this guy my arse to kiss and he keeps calling/texting me saying good morning and all and I COMPLETELY ignored him. I can't say it enough, treat men like crap and they will run crazy trying to get you.... NOT really like crap but you know what I mean (I'm really a nice person).
He probably lived with another woman and that's why he chose to text at night yet call in the morning?? I'm too freaking smart for this crap and that's why I refuse to settle. I'm old fashioned and this texting me asking me out on a date is for the birds.
Okay, just had to share a stupid dating story. Feel free to share your own. Dating is really getting old. Also, I'm PMSing so I needed to vent really bad LOL.
Met a guy at the Dunkin Donuts across from my job one morning. He wasn't exactly my type but seemed nice. I was rushing back to work so after he introduced himself and all he asked for my number and just as I was giving it to him he started stuttering... and BAD too . That completely turned me off since I already was on the fence about him. He said he'd call me later that night.
I said oh gosh, I hope he doesn't call. Well, I got my wish and he didn't call. He TEXTS me instead about 10:30pm!! Ugh! It gets worse, he texts: "coffee tomorrow? What time is good for u?
I completely ignored his text figuring he'll come to his senses and PICK UP THE PHONE to properly ask me out over the phone. He didn't. Instead, the next MORNING he decides to call saying this: "Hello Hairsnob, I don't know if you got my message but I was hoping we could meet at Dunkin Donuts for coffee. Let me know.. blah blah blah"
I totally ignored his voice message because he is out of his mind thinking I'm gonna meet for breakfast at a WALK-IN Dunkin Donuts???? I was so insulted!! There are NO tables or chairs anyway, just enough room to order your food and all. What were we going to do, stand outside and talk or even worse, sit in his car?
So he continued to text for a few mornings and ask me to meet him for coffee. I'd ignore him. And first of all, I DON'T EVEN DRINK COFFEE!! So after a few days of this I finally put my big girl panties on and text'd him back saying: "Hi Al, got your msg and sorry for not getting back to you. It's bad timing and I won't be able to see you so I don't want to waste your time. It's complicated... Hairsnob"
He text'd back saying "?????" and called again a few times. I ignored them because I thought my response was good enough to save face for him but I guess guys don't get "hints". For the next two weeks he continued to text me saying "good morning". I have to totally ignore him because if I say it back it feeds into him. I know I'm kinda mean but I just CAN'T!!
Anyway, this goes to say, this SAME guy who has a good job and all is chasing me and probably has some woman who is chasing him that he isn't paying any mind. I basically gave this guy my arse to kiss and he keeps calling/texting me saying good morning and all and I COMPLETELY ignored him. I can't say it enough, treat men like crap and they will run crazy trying to get you.... NOT really like crap but you know what I mean (I'm really a nice person).
He probably lived with another woman and that's why he chose to text at night yet call in the morning?? I'm too freaking smart for this crap and that's why I refuse to settle. I'm old fashioned and this texting me asking me out on a date is for the birds.
Okay, just had to share a stupid dating story. Feel free to share your own. Dating is really getting old. Also, I'm PMSing so I needed to vent really bad LOL.