misspriss
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Sooo....I met a guy through mutual friends. We had met before, but I didn't pay him much attention. Well, this weekend I saw him twice, once at a bbq at his place (I didn't know it was his place at the time, a friend invited me). And once the next night at a friend's party. At the party we talked and flirted, but the end of the night got hectic and we didn't get a chance to say goodbye or exchange numbers (I'm hoping at this point he's interested because I definitely started liking him).
Well, I waited it out...(didn't try to e-stalk him or ask my friends for his number) to see if he'd make an effort, lol. And today I got a facebook friend request from him. I accepted, but nothing more. So then he sent me a message "What's going on lady? What happened to you guys on Sunday night? Text me when you get a chance, not on facebook that often.... xxx.xxx.xxxx"
Now, I'm thinking I have 3 options:
1. Text him to the effect of "Hey, it's misspriss. Give me a call sometime ". That way he has my number and knows I'm interested, but the ball is in his court.
2. Friend A thinks I should forgo the texting (because well, it's texting) and just call him.
3. Friend B thinks I should message him back my number and not text or call.
What would you ladies do? Oh, and how long should I wait to make contact???
Thanks in advance!!!
Well, I waited it out...(didn't try to e-stalk him or ask my friends for his number) to see if he'd make an effort, lol. And today I got a facebook friend request from him. I accepted, but nothing more. So then he sent me a message "What's going on lady? What happened to you guys on Sunday night? Text me when you get a chance, not on facebook that often.... xxx.xxx.xxxx"
Now, I'm thinking I have 3 options:
1. Text him to the effect of "Hey, it's misspriss. Give me a call sometime ". That way he has my number and knows I'm interested, but the ball is in his court.
2. Friend A thinks I should forgo the texting (because well, it's texting) and just call him.
3. Friend B thinks I should message him back my number and not text or call.
What would you ladies do? Oh, and how long should I wait to make contact???
Thanks in advance!!!
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