LBoogie
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I hope he ask you to; I can see you right now just smiling from ear to ear
OMG that smiley is too cute!
SHEANITPRO, another will come along.
OoooHHHH Weeeee!
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OMG that smiley is too cute!
SHEANITPRO, another will come along.
brownelovely
Well-Known Member
Why not strike up a conversation first? Nothing wrong with that, he may have taken your response as "not interested" vs. going with rules.
You don't have to throw yourself at him but there's absolutely nothing wrong with flirting, having a little conversation, etc...Following too many rules will keep you alone
and waiting 
SHEANITPRO
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Why not strike up a conversation first? Nothing wrong with that, he may have taken your response as "not interested" vs. going with rules.
You don't have to throw yourself at him but there's absolutely nothing wrong with flirting, having a little conversation, etc...Following too many rules will keep you alone
Girl, I know that's right! I ain't tryin to be "Little Miss Cool the Fool"!
We'll see how things play out!
BrooklynSouth
New Member
I agree with that. A bit frustrating but that's how it goes. I want my 'Frenchman' to pursue me; I listened and did not do the cd thing. I did call for someone who works in his area..hoping he'd answer the phone which he did...he went to look for her{she was not there I knew she was already in the same area I was
} Once he returned to the phone I said.."Oh, I recognize your voice." We had a small conversation where I reminded him of our two encounters...he said.."Oh, that was you?" {the first encounter when he assisted me.} Nothing since...daggone it!! So, I'm feeling you on the lack of pursuit..kick rocks..kick rocks...
SHEANITPRO
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I caved I contacted him, ya’ll I just had to “check in” with dude, of couse I don’t want to be a rebound from his “break up”, …but I felt maybe he needed a little nudge so I sent him an email, here is the content and his reply.
From: Sheanitpro
Sent: Thursday, August 13, 2009 5:39 PM
To: The Crush
Subject: Just Checking
Hey dude just checking on you!
If you’re reading this on 8/14, this makes (3) weeks since we’ve spoke. How’s it going?
“Keep your head up”!
From: The Crush
Sent: Friday, August 14, 2009 8:03 AM
To: Sheanitpro
Subject: RE: Just Checking
Everything is well my friend & thanks for asking. (he had inserted a smiley here!)
From: Sheanitpro
Sent: Friday, August 14, 2009 11:15 AM
To: The Crush
Subject: RE: Just Checking
That’s good to hear! Stay Up!
Now, when I got to work on Friday morning, he was standing in the work area as I came
In…..just watching me. I could not make eye contact (damn I hate that, but I feel that if I
look at him, my panties just may spontaneously combust), and I was too far to really acknowledge him by saying anything…to wave at him would have be too “school-girl”, (I say that as if not making eye contact isn’t. LOL!).
His gaze followed me all the way to my work area. Ya’ll when he looks at me I feel like he is taking my clothes completely off, one piece at a time, and ever so slowly!
Anyhow, my lunch is at 2:30 and when I got up to go to lunch on Friday, I was surprised (yeah…like “deer in the headlight” surprised), to find him standing at the foot of the aisle of my cube on the other side of the corridor, faced in the direction that I was coming from to go the the breakroom.
He was standing there with another male co worker who I’ll call “M”. “M” is recently “engaged”.
Well the two of them were standing there holding Styrofoam cups in their hands, and talking to each other. By all appearances, it looked like they were “conversing over drinks, outside of work”!
Flash back to just a week and a half before “M” had sent me a 2nd email invitation (I couldn’t make the 1st), to a BBQ, Football and Poker Party at his house, being hosted by he and his fiancee!
Ya’ll I swear….the way the two of them were standing there at the end of the aisle when I went to lunch, it was like they were “sending me a message”, or they had “staged” their performance!
Maybe I was trippin, but I really don’t think so! It seems that with a “little encouragement” dude puts forth effort.
Plus I think “M” might be his “wing-man”! and was asked to extend an invite to me.
I’ve not yet RSVP’d, but I tell you ladies….I will be attending that BBQ, Footbal and Poker Party on the 29th!
Here’s a copy of “M”s invite!
From: M
Sent: Wednesday, August 05, 2009 5:51 PM
To: Sheanitpro
Subject: FW: BBQ, Football and Poker 08/29/2009
Come Hang With Ya Boy!!!!!!!!
Come one come all if you missed the last BBQ you don’t want to miss this one. The festivities will begin @4:00 PM August 29, 2009 which is the last Saturday of the month will be on and popping LOL, this time around will be bigger and better. The Menu will be Potato Salad, Beans, Garden Salad, Chicken, Hot Sausage, My World Famous Ribs, and introducing the “Fat Burger”. Best part of All, We have Football. The 29th schedule is as follows.
Wish me luck ladies! If my crush don't step up...the "man of my dreams" might find me at this gathering!
From: Sheanitpro
Sent: Thursday, August 13, 2009 5:39 PM
To: The Crush
Subject: Just Checking
Hey dude just checking on you!
If you’re reading this on 8/14, this makes (3) weeks since we’ve spoke. How’s it going?
“Keep your head up”!
From: The Crush
Sent: Friday, August 14, 2009 8:03 AM
To: Sheanitpro
Subject: RE: Just Checking
Everything is well my friend & thanks for asking. (he had inserted a smiley here!)
From: Sheanitpro
Sent: Friday, August 14, 2009 11:15 AM
To: The Crush
Subject: RE: Just Checking
That’s good to hear! Stay Up!
Now, when I got to work on Friday morning, he was standing in the work area as I came
In…..just watching me. I could not make eye contact (damn I hate that, but I feel that if I
look at him, my panties just may spontaneously combust), and I was too far to really acknowledge him by saying anything…to wave at him would have be too “school-girl”, (I say that as if not making eye contact isn’t. LOL!).
His gaze followed me all the way to my work area. Ya’ll when he looks at me I feel like he is taking my clothes completely off, one piece at a time, and ever so slowly!
Anyhow, my lunch is at 2:30 and when I got up to go to lunch on Friday, I was surprised (yeah…like “deer in the headlight” surprised), to find him standing at the foot of the aisle of my cube on the other side of the corridor, faced in the direction that I was coming from to go the the breakroom.
He was standing there with another male co worker who I’ll call “M”. “M” is recently “engaged”.
Well the two of them were standing there holding Styrofoam cups in their hands, and talking to each other. By all appearances, it looked like they were “conversing over drinks, outside of work”!
Flash back to just a week and a half before “M” had sent me a 2nd email invitation (I couldn’t make the 1st), to a BBQ, Football and Poker Party at his house, being hosted by he and his fiancee!
Ya’ll I swear….the way the two of them were standing there at the end of the aisle when I went to lunch, it was like they were “sending me a message”, or they had “staged” their performance!
Maybe I was trippin, but I really don’t think so! It seems that with a “little encouragement” dude puts forth effort.
Plus I think “M” might be his “wing-man”! and was asked to extend an invite to me.
I’ve not yet RSVP’d, but I tell you ladies….I will be attending that BBQ, Footbal and Poker Party on the 29th!
Here’s a copy of “M”s invite!
From: M
Sent: Wednesday, August 05, 2009 5:51 PM
To: Sheanitpro
Subject: FW: BBQ, Football and Poker 08/29/2009
Come Hang With Ya Boy!!!!!!!!
Come one come all if you missed the last BBQ you don’t want to miss this one. The festivities will begin @4:00 PM August 29, 2009 which is the last Saturday of the month will be on and popping LOL, this time around will be bigger and better. The Menu will be Potato Salad, Beans, Garden Salad, Chicken, Hot Sausage, My World Famous Ribs, and introducing the “Fat Burger”. Best part of All, We have Football. The 29th schedule is as follows.
Wish me luck ladies! If my crush don't step up...the "man of my dreams" might find me at this gathering!
Livingmylifetothefullest
Well-Known Member
Good Luck and as always keep the updates coming . Now you have me over here getting chills 
and smiling like a little school girl when you mentioned the way he was watching you.
SHEANITPRO
Well-Known Member
Alright Ladies I went to the BBQ on Saturday evening!
I deliberately dressed like I was going on a date, with just a 'little more shine", which is somewhat different than my conservative work attire. My hair was fly, and I wore a very feminine top, and nice slacks. I had my mani and pedi done with cute sandals and wore a nice fragrance.
I had my daughter (14) in tow, which was cool because the enviroment was family-like and I got an okay from the host prior to the event.
Of course my crush was there, and he stared at me from the time I hit the door.
There was a female co-worker present with some of her home girls. I have long suspected that she has feelings for "my crush" as well.
I saw her checking me, when I walked in. She did not look happy!
Anyhow, my crush was seated at a table in the kitchen of the home, which was huge.
The host showed us to the buffet table, and we began preparing plates but there was no where to sit.
My crush offered me his seat.
After fixing a plate, I got a beer from the cooler and opened it. My crush then walks over to me an said "you can only have one drink", then he walks away.
I'm like "yeah right" to myself...anyhow, as the evening progresses, while sitting in a group setting, he constantly asked questions of only me, not the female co-worker or her girls. Stuff like Do I like animals, Who is my favorite music artist? Who would I like to see perform live, do I play cards, etc.
When one of the females present asked how old my daughter was and I said 14, he "again" asked in front of everybody "so when are you gonna have a baby....a son"! (remember he has no kids, and he ALWAYS seems to ask me this question)! I was a little shocked that this time, he did it in front of other people!
One of the females said "well" and I said "If I remarry someone who does want a son, I would consider it".
Well my crush continued to check me out....looking at the hair, the outfit, my fingernails....even my toes, as the practice in this home is to "take off your shoes" upon entry.
My daughter told me he was watching my ***, as I bent over the cooler getting a drink and she says "mom, he was asking questions only about you"....hmmmm!
After about two hours, he walks behind me and brushes my back and says I'm heading out and then he leaves...alone.
Arrrrgh!
Nothing else new to report. But I did enjoy the BBQ!
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nucienuce1
Active Member
Wow this is like a great book! Keep the info coming.
fuchsiastar
Well-Known Member
Um, okay...yes you were set up by the co-worker and YES, I am GLAD he paid you some well deserved attention. Good job on putting that extra oomph in your look for the evening. I'm LOL at your daughter, checking on how he was checking you out. I love it! Keep the updates coming, I'm excited about what he says at work to you this week. He needs to be about that lunch/dinner date soon!
Crystalicequeen123
Well-Known Member
Wow! Looks like you had fun at that BBQ! 
Good for you for looking "on point". LOL @ the other female co-worker glaring at you.
Anyway, definitely keep us posted! Right now it is pretty apparent that this co-worker of yours is DEFINITELY attracted to you. There was no hiding that at that party! 
But whether or not he wants a relationship...hmm....that's still up in the air!
I'm curious to see where this goes... :scratchch
Good for you for looking "on point". LOL @ the other female co-worker glaring at you. Anyway, definitely keep us posted! Right now it is pretty apparent that this co-worker of yours is DEFINITELY attracted to you.
There was no hiding that at that party! But whether or not he wants a relationship...hmm....that's still up in the air! I'm curious to see where this goes... :scratchch
exoticmommie
New Member
UPDATES!!! I am excited for you!
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