LBoogie
Well-Known Member
I hope he ask you to ; I can see you right now just smiling from ear to ear
OMG that smiley is too cute!
SHEANITPRO, another will come along.
I hope he ask you to ; I can see you right now just smiling from ear to ear
Alright Ladies...an "update"
Week Three and it is with mixed feelings that I tell you I have nothing new to share.
My interaction with dude went no further than his initially letting my know that he split with his girl.
I do feel a little sad, that he hasn't pursued me. But I am so glad that the "rules" have taught me to love only those who love and pursue me. That is the true "acid test" I believe and one I didn't always follow in past years.
Back then I would have been trying hard to "make it happen", but just for today I feel that the "rules" truly help to separate the men from the boys, and Lord knows I am looking for a man!
Its not about dude, its all about me and just for today....there is mutual rejection my friends.
I'm not "chasin", and he's not steppin up. We are at an "impasse".
Oh well! At least I've got the support of my girls on LHCF! Thanks Ladies!
Why not strike up a conversation first? Nothing wrong with that, he may have taken your response as "not interested" vs. going with rules.
You don't have to throw yourself at him but there's absolutely nothing wrong with flirting, having a little conversation, etc...Following too many rules will keep you alone and waiting
Alright Ladies...an "update"
Week Three and it is with mixed feelings that I tell you I have nothing new to share.
My interaction with dude went no further than his initially letting my know that he split with his girl.
I do feel a little sad, that he hasn't pursued me. But I am so glad that the "rules" have taught me to love only those who love and pursue me. That is the true "acid test" I believe and one I didn't always follow in past years.
Back then I would have been trying hard to "make it happen", but just for today I feel that the "rules" truly help to separate the men from the boys, and Lord knows I am looking for a man!
Its not about dude, its all about me and just for today....there is mutual rejection my friends.
I'm not "chasin", and he's not steppin up. We are at an "impasse".
Oh well! At least I've got the support of my girls on LHCF! Thanks Ladies!
I caved I contacted him, ya’ll I just had to “check in” with dude, of couse I don’t want to be a rebound from his “break up”, …but I felt maybe he needed a little nudge so I sent him an email, here is the content and his reply.
From: Sheanitpro
Sent: Thursday, August 13, 2009 5:39 PM
To: The Crush
Subject: Just Checking
Hey dude just checking on you!
If you’re reading this on 8/14, this makes (3) weeks since we’ve spoke. How’s it going?
“Keep your head up”!
From: The Crush
Sent: Friday, August 14, 2009 8:03 AM
To: Sheanitpro
Subject: RE: Just Checking
Everything is well my friend & thanks for asking. (he had inserted a smiley here!)
From: Sheanitpro
Sent: Friday, August 14, 2009 11:15 AM
To: The Crush
Subject: RE: Just Checking
That’s good to hear! Stay Up!
Now, when I got to work on Friday morning, he was standing in the work area as I came
In…..just watching me. I could not make eye contact (damn I hate that, but I feel that if I
look at him, my panties just may spontaneously combust), and I was too far to really acknowledge him by saying anything…to wave at him would have be too “school-girl”, (I say that as if not making eye contact isn’t. LOL!).
His gaze followed me all the way to my work area. Ya’ll when he looks at me I feel like he is taking my clothes completely off, one piece at a time, and ever so slowly!
Anyhow, my lunch is at 2:30 and when I got up to go to lunch on Friday, I was surprised (yeah…like “deer in the headlight” surprised), to find him standing at the foot of the aisle of my cube on the other side of the corridor, faced in the direction that I was coming from to go the the breakroom.
He was standing there with another male co worker who I’ll call “M”. “M” is recently “engaged”.
Well the two of them were standing there holding Styrofoam cups in their hands, and talking to each other. By all appearances, it looked like they were “conversing over drinks, outside of work”!
Flash back to just a week and a half before “M” had sent me a 2nd email invitation (I couldn’t make the 1st), to a BBQ, Football and Poker Party at his house, being hosted by he and his fiancee!
Ya’ll I swear….the way the two of them were standing there at the end of the aisle when I went to lunch, it was like they were “sending me a message”, or they had “staged” their performance!
Maybe I was trippin, but I really don’t think so! It seems that with a “little encouragement” dude puts forth effort.
Plus I think “M” might be his “wing-man”! and was asked to extend an invite to me.
I’ve not yet RSVP’d, but I tell you ladies….I will be attending that BBQ, Footbal and Poker Party on the 29th!
Here’s a copy of “M”s invite!
From: M
Sent: Wednesday, August 05, 2009 5:51 PM
To: Sheanitpro
Subject: FW: BBQ, Football and Poker 08/29/2009
Come Hang With Ya Boy!!!!!!!!
Come one come all if you missed the last BBQ you don’t want to miss this one. The festivities will begin @4:00 PM August 29, 2009 which is the last Saturday of the month will be on and popping LOL, this time around will be bigger and better. The Menu will be Potato Salad, Beans, Garden Salad, Chicken, Hot Sausage, My World Famous Ribs, and introducing the “Fat Burger”. Best part of All, We have Football. The 29th schedule is as follows.
Wish me luck ladies! If my crush don't step up...the "man of my dreams" might find me at this gathering!