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SHEANITPRO

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Hey ya'll I have not posted in this forum, because I am not currently in a relationship!

However, on today....just a few minutes ago as a matter of fact, my CRUSH walked with me down to the company cafeteria.

We work at the same company in different depts, and he has always been so mannish, which I love :yep::yep:. I sometimes catch him lookin at me, or sometimes he will come over to my work area and say a little something, but we have had no real conversations.

He is FIONE too! Tall, brown and handsome with an athletic build, with no children...I cannot tell you how many women have literally "thrown" themselves at him. But I play "little miss cool".

I am older than him....He is early 30's and yes I've got him beat by a minute for real! Although I do look good for my age.

Anywhoo...today, on my way to the elevator to the cafeteria, he walks with me and starts to "out of nowhere" tell me that he has broken up with his girl, and is on the market. He told me that he was tired of always being accused of cheating by her and that it basically chased him away. He mentioned that she was 26, and that he used to date "older" women, and maybe he needs to get back to that.

Then we made a little small talk about work, his shift ends before mine and he asked if I like my hours...of which I told him I have adjusted and since my daughter is in high school I'm flexible.

He then asked me when I was going to have another baby, a son! LAWD have mercy Jesus! (I wanted to attack his *** on the spot, and start working on it) LOL! :yep::yep::yep::yep:

I told him that if I remarried, a younger man who could "throw the ball around" with his son, I might consider it!

I definitely made sure to let cuz know I liked younger men, please believe me!

I am traditional....and I have been practicing "the rules" unbeknowst to this man....seems like it might be working.

I sure hope he's interested in further pursuits with me!

I just wanted to share....I feel like a giddy little school girl!
 
*clappin like da CLUMPS*.... ./'./'./' HERCULES HERCULES HERCULES...

I got a feeling this is going to be a very HOT summer for you...lawd ha merci girl....GET IT!!!!!!!:grin:
 
How did the conversation end? Did he ask for your number?

I hope it works out for the two of you :)
 
Son26 said:
How did the conversation end? Did he ask for your number?

I hope it works out for the two of you :)
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No he didn't, at least not yet....I think he was trying to feel me out though.

I will let him initate any further contact, and hope to have something to report to you soon.
 
Oooooooooooooooooo Weeee! ! ! :lachen: I'm laughing at your thread title. :lol:

I'm happy for you. You are an IT Pro and he's no fool. He knows class when he sees it.

I'm glad he didn't contribute to the ' baby shower gift' that wasn't. :yep:

Take it slow, stay classy and enjoy being cherished. :yep:
 
SHEANITPRO said:
I am older than him....He is early 30's and yes I've got him beat by a minute for real! Although I do look good for my age.
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When it comes to 'age', just remember 'MOM'.

M ind
O ver
M atter

If the two of you don't Mind, then it don't Matter. :meditate: Relax and forget it. :yep:
 
Oh wow!! This is great news! :D

Don't you just love it when your crush shows an interest?? :love:

There are just a few things to keep in mind though....


SHEANITPRO said:
He is FIONE too! Tall, brown and handsome with an athletic build, with no children...I cannot tell you how many women have literally "thrown" themselves at him. But I play "little miss cool".
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Way to go girl! ;) That's the way. :yep: Keep being "little miss cool", and don't throw yourself at ANY man!


I am older than him....He is early 30's and yes I've got him beat by a minute for real! Although I do look good for my age.
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Sometimes age is nothing but a number. If he hasn't shown you to be immature, then I don't think you have anything to worry about right now. I would take all men at face-value no matter how "old" or "young" they are (within legal reason of course! :lol: ).


Anywhoo...today, on my way to the elevator to the cafeteria, he walks with me and starts to "out of nowhere" tell me that he has broken up with his girl, and is on the
market.
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Hmmm...just keep your ears and eyes open girl, because he is a guy who JUST broke up with his gf (from the sound of it). You don't want to be a "rebound girl". So, just make sure that he's completely over her, and isn't just looking for some female companionship in the meantime.



He told me that he was tired of always being accused of cheating by her and that it basically chased him away. He mentioned that she was 26, and that he used to date "older" women, and maybe he needs to get back to that.
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I would also keep a lookout for this as well. He has told you that his previous ex-gf accused him of cheating on many different occasions. Now, unless his gf is mentally unstable or is VERY insecure, most women don't just "make up" claims that a guy is cheating on them. Either the guy is doing something to cause her to doubt him, or he is behaving in such a way that makes her suspicious of him. Idk....but usually women don't just pull the "cheating" card out of thin air.

I'm not saying he was cheating on her, but just to keep that bit of info in the back of your mind! ;)



He then asked me when I was going to have another baby, a son! LAWD have mercy Jesus! (I wanted to attack his *** on the spot, and start working on it) LOL! :yep::yep::yep::yep:
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LOL!!! :lachen: Careful now, you guys are on "work time"! Ooooooo...He was flirrrrrting with you!!! :blush:



I am traditional....and I have been practicing "the rules" unbeknowst to this man....seems like it might be working.
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Good for you for doing "The Rules"! :up:
Keep up the good work! :D

Please keep us posted about what happens with this guy. He seems promising! Make sure he asks for your number so that he can start calling you and planning dates with you OUTSIDE of work! ;)

I wish you the best!!
 
Sheanitpro..I'm feeling you...I'm feeling you! I met a man in the elevator at work..we started to converse then he discovered I speak a bit of french..cannot even tell you how that happened but we began to converse in french. He asked my name, I asked his then we began to cross a busy street...we both in turn reached out to touch block one another as we crossed the busy street. I began to internally freak as a strange sensation occurred including a peculiar fear of intimacy. I felt connected to this man! I went to order my breakfast, he to buy multiple--about 20 cans of ARIZONA ARNOLD PALMER. I saw on his ID he was an administrative assistant so guess his boss had sent him on a fetch for some meeting. I have been hoping to see him again during the week but no luck--at least you know where to find your crush!!
 
Would you believe my 'crush' was right under my nose? I found him within my same department at work-different building but same department! I realized we had had a very wonderful exchange last month when he helped me out...I had been under so much stress when he helped me out that morning in June and the warm feeling I had from it that I had forgotten that he was the same person who protected me from speeding autos. I 'found' him today while having a casual conversation with someone..then the light bulb came on. I now have a way to make a real impression by giving him a very minor, gag gift thanking him for his assistance that stressful morning and of course a way to see if he is interested at the same time:yep:.
 
BrooklynSouth said:
Would you believe my 'crush' was right under my nose? I found him within my same department at work-different building but same department! I realized we had had a very wonderful exchange last month when he helped me out...I had been under so much stress when he helped me out that morning in June and the warm feeling I had from it that I had forgotten that he was the same person who protected me from speeding autos. I 'found' him today while having a casual conversation with someone..then the light bulb came on. I now have a way to make a real impression by giving him a very minor, gag gift thanking him for his assistance that stressful morning and of course a way to see if he is interested at the same time:yep:.
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:woot: you go, girl
 
LHCF2009 said:
Ok, what's the status :grin:
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Its been 1 week, since he shared his break-up news with me....I'm just "chillin" (don't want to be the rebound). I passed him in the company corridor this morning on the way to the ladies room, and he asked how I was...I was moving kinda fast as, I had just had a sneezing fit, so I just said "I'm good" in my haste.

I did see him checking me out though when I was returning to my work area, damn he gives me a "sexy chill" everytime he looks.

I'm gonna see if he pursues anything further....I think it good that I don't go over to his work area, or make overt overtures toward him.

I want a man, and him stepping to me, to get together out of work is the first demonstration of that.
 
SHEANITPRO said:
Its been 1 week, since he shared his break-up news with me....I'm just "chillin" (don't want to be the rebound). I passed him in the company corridor this morning on the way to the ladies room, and he asked how I was...I was moving kinda fast as, I had just had a sneezing fit, so I just said "I'm good" in my haste.

I did see him checking me out though when I was returning to my work area, damn he gives me a "sexy chill" everytime he looks.

I'm gonna see if he pursues anything further....I think it good that I don't go over to his work area, or make overt overtures toward him.

I want a man, and him stepping to me, to get together out of work is the first demonstration of that.
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You are right. I am so tempted to go over to "Crushes" area to hand him a cd copy of some classic French {Jos. Baker,Chevalier, Piaf}music with a little note saying"THANKS FOR THE LANGUAGE LESSON AND YOUR HELP THAT DAY IN JUNE"...we were having a conversation in his perfect french and my broken french when we were talking so thought it would be seen as a thanks and not a forward gesture but I'm not quite sure to do it or not????????{At my age I cannot believe I am not sure:blush:}
 
I'm excited for you! You're doing great playing it cool. Good luck! I'll be checking back in this thread.
 
BrooklynSouth said:
You are right. I am so tempted to go over to "Crushes" area to hand him a cd copy of some classic French {Jos. Baker,Chevalier, Piaf}music with a little note saying"THANKS FOR THE LANGUAGE LESSON AND YOUR HELP THAT DAY IN JUNE"...we were having a conversation in his perfect french and my broken french when we were talking so thought it would be seen as a thanks and not a forward gesture but I'm not quite sure to do it or not????????{At my age I cannot believe I am not sure:blush:}
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Don't do it...
 
Alright Ladies...an "update"

Week Three and it is with mixed feelings that I tell you I have nothing new to share.

My interaction with dude went no further than his initially letting my know that he split with his girl.

I do feel a little sad, that he hasn't pursued me. But I am so glad that the "rules" have taught me to love only those who love and pursue me. That is the true "acid test" I believe and one I didn't always follow in past years.

Back then I would have been trying hard to "make it happen", but just for today I feel that the "rules" truly help to separate the men from the boys, and Lord knows I am looking for a man!

Its not about dude, its all about me and just for today....there is mutual rejection my friends.

I'm not "chasin", and he's not steppin up. We are at an "impasse".

Oh well! At least I've got the support of my girls on LHCF! Thanks Ladies!
 
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