TRUKARISMA
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if you meet someone online, you go out for a couple of dates. and you like the person . how soon after do you take your profile down?
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kayte
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oh my...right after the marriage proposal....lol
seriously...I'd only do that if it were mutually serious
and if he said his was going down ......first..
I would not even offer mine..at least until that
ETA..Correction: I would not even offer mine to be taken off
until his was ALREADY down.....and he made it very clear he dint want
to share you with anyone and that he had no interest in any other woman
that's highly unlikely to happen this early... you are still getting to know him
don't be fooled by chemistry!..see if he even merits this honor
after only a couple of dates?? dates..yes? not a relationship right?
a bit premature..
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TRUKARISMA
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we went out on two dates, and chat sometimes. i took my profile down. but they did not.
TRUKARISMA
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i just thought after you meet the person and the chemistry was there that you both would stop looking.
TRUKARISMA
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i am not looking for an exclusive relationship . until i get to know the person better.
Bunny77
New Member
Oh absolutely not!
Not in online or real-life dating!
You are a free agent until someone makes you his girlfriend... and some would say, until you have an engagement ring on your finger!
Like you said, HE didn't take his profile down, did he?
Bunny77
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That's the point. You're getting to know the person better to see if you want to be exclusive.
TRUKARISMA
Active Member
Oh okay..really new at this...
Bunny77
New Member
No problem. We just don't want you to get hurt!
It always goes like this... girl likes dude and they go on a few dates and she's happy and doesn't want to date anyone else, meanwhile dude keeps dating... and girl is wondering why.
They're not thinking about this the same way. Plus, you don't know how many girls he's talking to either, and how many of them are really digging him as well!
It always goes like this... girl likes dude and they go on a few dates and she's happy and doesn't want to date anyone else, meanwhile dude keeps dating... and girl is wondering why.
They're not thinking about this the same way. Plus, you don't know how many girls he's talking to either, and how many of them are really digging him as well!
BrooklynSouth
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For sure, put your profile back up there until you are sure he is a keeper.
Sosoothing
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I agree with everyone else so far. You took your profile down way too soon. I would wait until you two talk about being serious with each other. Taking down both profiles should be something both of you both agree to after talking about being serious.
TRUKARISMA
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another question:if the person is going through a crisis, says there going to call but doesnt do you feel offended. should you initiate contact to see what is going on. or just wait for them to contact you.
Bunny77
New Member
What is this "crisis?"
I say don't initiate anything. In my experience, a "crisis" is a good excuse to start backing off from a woman or create space.
If a man wants to call you, he'll call.
And as a wise old woman once told me, "If a man hasn't called you, it's because he doesn't want to talk to you!"
(Yes, there are exceptions to this, but unless this crisis is him being in a coma or something, he should be able to find five minutes to call you.)
P.S. I wouldn't feel offended. Maybe disappointed, but not offended. If anything, I'd be glad that he started to show his true colors. You want a man that keeps his word, and if he can't even do that on the little things like making a phone call, how do you expect him to keep it with the big things?
Vinillablue
Active Member
That's Great you found someone online but, you better make sure!!!...I would keep it up for a few more months. I know too many online horror stories!!!.....please be very careful!!!
prettypuff1
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MissMeWithThatIsh
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N-E-V-E-R. I was married first... lol
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