The other day I loved my hair. Today I HATE IT. I think its a bit of PMS though. When I went to do my evening moisturized I looked at my hair and started to cryI think my hair is in great condition but its not where I think it should be.
I get so tired of seeing progress pictures of people that use heat everyday and have gained a good amount of growth over the past yearserplexed. I then look at mine and say what the he!! am I doing wrong.
I dunno.....
Aaaawwwww. don't be discouraged.. I really think that part of the journey is meant
for you to learn your hair! I have tried to self relax twice but everytime it comes out wrong.. but I am going to
keep @ it! U should to! I think when the struggle is over u will appreicate your sawning hair! ((hugs))
Are you relaxed or natural? I'm relaxed and my shrinkage is ridiculi (that means beyond ridiculous)! If you airdry and only comb when wet like I do then we are in the same boat. My hair looks chin length right now. I know its not that's what it looks like. All that to say--it's probably shrinkage playing mind tricks on you.I could very well be wrong, and wanting more of something, however, it feels like my growth is slowing down, or maybe it's just because I'm way passed due for a relaxer, and the shrinkage is playing a role. But whatever it is, my hair seems like it's been at this same length for the past month. just wanted to get that off my chest.
The other day I loved my hair. Today I HATE IT. I think its a bit of PMS though. When I went to do my evening moisturized I looked at my hair and started to cryI think my hair is in great condition but its not where I think it should be.
I get so tired of seeing progress pictures of people that use heat everyday and have gained a good amount of growth over the past yearserplexed. I then look at mine and say what the he!! am I doing wrong.
I dunno.....
I just posted in the Relaxer's Stretch Support thread that I hated my hair yesterday. My ng is tryna start a fight that she ain't gone win. So I know how you feel. Also you know betta...do not compare your progress to others. Just keep doing what you know is right and things will work out. Maybe you need to switch it up a bit.
Just wanted to show some of my progress.. I still think its taking too long
taken november at the start of my hair journey
taken today
I know I know but its just so disappointing sometime. Funny thing, my ng is good, its everything else that I don't like. But like I said, its probably just my hormones this week. Hopefully next week it'll be a bit better.
Are you relaxed or natural? I'm relaxed and my shrinkage is ridiculi (that means beyond ridiculous)! If you airdry and only comb when wet like I do then we are in the same boat. My hair looks chin length right now. I know its not that's what it looks like. All that to say--it's probably shrinkage playing mind tricks on you.
I just posted in the Relaxer's Stretch Support thread that I hated my hair yesterday. My ng is tryna start a fight that she ain't gone win. So I know how you feel. Also you know betta...do not compare your progress to others. Just keep doing what you know is right and things will work out. Maybe you need to switch it up a bit.
Ummmm I cant have one of my favorite APL Cheerleaders down in the dumps. Gurl chin up you are wayyyyyyyy ahead of the game. Just think about where you started and where you are now. You have gained healthhy strands, longer strands, knowledge, and sister girlfriends.
So now what I need you to do is to go in the mirror and embrace your hair love your hair and most of all moisturize YOUR hair.
Hugs
SouthernStunner
This is soooo true! And can be quite depressing when you are stretching your relaxer and it seems like your hair gets shorter every day....I have learned to embrace it though. You have shrinkage because of new growth.
Sorry you have been in the dumps Ms Devo (((((Hugs)))).
This is soooo true! And can be quite depressing when you are stretching your relaxer and it seems like your hair gets shorter every day....I have learned to embrace it though. You have shrinkage because of new growth.
Sorry you have been in the dumps Ms Devo (((((Hugs)))).
The other day I loved my hair. Today I HATE IT. I think its a bit of PMS though. When I went to do my evening moisturized I looked at my hair and started to cryI think my hair is in great condition but its not where I think it should be.
I get so tired of seeing progress pictures of people that use heat everyday and have gained a good amount of growth over the past yearserplexed. I then look at mine and say what the he!! am I doing wrong.
I dunno.....
MsDevo, you feelin better today? I think we all go through phases where we feel like our progress is not moving fast enough, but you did say you felt like your hair is in great cond., so that means you're on the right track sigh............. I guess we just have to be patient & we'll be there (APL) before we know it. HHG
Just wanted to show some of my progress.. I still think its taking too long
taken november at the start of my hair journey
taken today