Official: For Short Haired Ladies...APL by Dec'09!

Checking in...

I'm still in braids. Still using Surge 14 and WOC daily but I need to step up on the co washing. I need to go back to co washing atleast 3-4 week.
 
I dusted last night-- I believe it was 1/2 inch, maybe a little less.

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I am not sure if I am making the progress I like, mainly becuase of shrinkage its hard to tell how much growth I have. However, when I wash hair is hanging a little bit longer than usual.

I just dusted my ends today, and wash and deep condition so should be putting my hair in twist today. Plan to go into kinky twist in the next 2 wks or so till june 2009.

I probably won't posting any progress till september then, when the weather is cooler, so that I can flat iron

Just doing the usual, weekly cleansing and deep condition, moisturising daily.
 
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I started megatex today! I just co-washed with Suave humectant for the very first time ( 2 thumbs up) after detangling all this texlax and relaxed hair with tons and tons of olive oil! I am now applying megatax(mixed with EVOO) to my damp scalp... APL.. PLZ COME SOOON!
 
I could very well be wrong, and wanting more of something, however, it feels like my growth is slowing down, or maybe it's just because I'm way passed due for a relaxer, and the shrinkage is playing a role. But whatever it is, my hair seems like it's been at this same length for the past month. :ohwell: just wanted to get that off my chest.
 
I want progress too by the end of the month. I haven't used any heat and I protect my hair under a wig. So I'm hoping being gentle with my hair makes a difference. :scratchch
 
The other day I loved my hair. Today I HATE IT. I think its a bit of PMS though. When I went to do my evening moisturized I looked at my hair and started to cry:cry:I think my hair is in great condition but its not where I think it should be.

I get so tired of seeing progress pictures of people that use heat everyday and have gained a good amount of growth over the past years:perplexed. I then look at mine and say what the he!! am I doing wrong. :ohwell:
I dunno..... :sad:
 
The other day I loved my hair. Today I HATE IT. I think its a bit of PMS though. When I went to do my evening moisturized I looked at my hair and started to cry:cry:I think my hair is in great condition but its not where I think it should be.

I get so tired of seeing progress pictures of people that use heat everyday and have gained a good amount of growth over the past years:perplexed. I then look at mine and say what the he!! am I doing wrong. :ohwell:
I dunno..... :sad:


Aaaawwwww. don't be discouraged.. I really think that part of the journey is meant for you to learn your hair! I have tried to self relax twice but everytime it comes out wrong.. but I am going to keep @ it! U should to! I think when the struggle is over u will appreicate your sawning hair! ((hugs))
 
Just wanted to show some of my progress.. I still think its taking too long:ohwell:


taken november at the start of my hair journey

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taken today

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Thank you. I don't know it just seems like sometime its just a lose/lose battle.
Aaaawwwww. don't be discouraged.. I really think that part of the journey is meant
for you to learn your hair! I have tried to self relax twice but everytime it comes out wrong.. but I am going to
keep @ it! U should to! I think when the struggle is over u will appreicate your sawning hair! ((hugs))
 
so far my hair looking like i will be apl by December 2009! so hurray. I had my last relaxer done March 4,09 and my stylist didnt need to dust me ends because they were looking good. I have been oiling my scalp with coconut oil and carrot oil and moisturizing my ends 2 times a day.
 

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just checkin in. i think incorporatin more protein (i use Mane 'N Tail conditioner) into my reggie is helpin my progress by makin my hair so much stronger
 
I could very well be wrong, and wanting more of something, however, it feels like my growth is slowing down, or maybe it's just because I'm way passed due for a relaxer, and the shrinkage is playing a role. But whatever it is, my hair seems like it's been at this same length for the past month. :ohwell: just wanted to get that off my chest.
Are you relaxed or natural? I'm relaxed and my shrinkage is ridiculi (that means beyond ridiculous)! If you airdry and only comb when wet like I do then we are in the same boat. My hair looks chin length right now. I know its not that's what it looks like. All that to say--it's probably shrinkage playing mind tricks on you.

The other day I loved my hair. Today I HATE IT. I think its a bit of PMS though. When I went to do my evening moisturized I looked at my hair and started to cry:cry:I think my hair is in great condition but its not where I think it should be.

I get so tired of seeing progress pictures of people that use heat everyday and have gained a good amount of growth over the past years:perplexed. I then look at mine and say what the he!! am I doing wrong. :ohwell:
I dunno..... :sad:

I just posted in the Relaxer's Stretch Support thread that I hated my hair yesterday. My ng is tryna start a fight that she ain't gone win. So I know how you feel. Also you know betta...do not compare your progress to others. Just keep doing what you know is right and things will work out. Maybe you need to switch it up a bit.
 
I know I know but its just so disappointing sometime. Funny thing, my ng is good, its everything else that I don't like. But like I said, its probably just my hormones this week. Hopefully next week it'll be a bit better.
I just posted in the Relaxer's Stretch Support thread that I hated my hair yesterday. My ng is tryna start a fight that she ain't gone win. So I know how you feel. Also you know betta...do not compare your progress to others. Just keep doing what you know is right and things will work out. Maybe you need to switch it up a bit.
 
I know exactly how you feel. My haircut was shorter than yours. I didnt think the back would every grow out. I was shaved, damn near peach fuzz, lol

You have made progress and thats what counts.

Haha listen to me encouraging and Im vexing bout my hair:lachen:
Just wanted to show some of my progress.. I still think its taking too long:ohwell:


taken november at the start of my hair journey




taken today
 
I know I know but its just so disappointing sometime. Funny thing, my ng is good, its everything else that I don't like. But like I said, its probably just my hormones this week. Hopefully next week it'll be a bit better.


Ummmm I cant have one of my favorite APL Cheerleaders down in the dumps:nono:. Gurl chin up you are wayyyyyyyy ahead of the game. Just think about where you started and where you are now. You have gained healthhy strands, longer strands, knowledge, and sister girlfriends.
So now what I need you to do is to go in the mirror and embrace your hair love your hair and most of all moisturize YOUR hair.

Hugs
SouthernStunner
 
Are you relaxed or natural? I'm relaxed and my shrinkage is ridiculi (that means beyond ridiculous)! If you airdry and only comb when wet like I do then we are in the same boat. My hair looks chin length right now. I know its not that's what it looks like. All that to say--it's probably shrinkage playing mind tricks on you.



I just posted in the Relaxer's Stretch Support thread that I hated my hair yesterday. My ng is tryna start a fight that she ain't gone win. So I know how you feel. Also you know betta...do not compare your progress to others. Just keep doing what you know is right and things will work out. Maybe you need to switch it up a bit.

This is soooo true! And can be quite depressing when you are stretching your relaxer and it seems like your hair gets shorter every day....I have learned to embrace it though. You have shrinkage because of new growth.

Sorry you have been in the dumps Ms Devo (((((Hugs)))).
 
Thanks sista girl :) My hair has been shedding a lil and I don't know what its from. I started my garlic supps again the other day so hopefully that'll help. Later on today I'm gonna get some alter ego hot oil with garlic. Imma use that once a week with the garlic shampoo. Im hoping that I won't get garlic overload lol

Ummmm I cant have one of my favorite APL Cheerleaders down in the dumps:nono:. Gurl chin up you are wayyyyyyyy ahead of the game. Just think about where you started and where you are now. You have gained healthhy strands, longer strands, knowledge, and sister girlfriends.
So now what I need you to do is to go in the mirror and embrace your hair love your hair and most of all moisturize YOUR hair.

Hugs
SouthernStunner
 
Thanks hun. It'll pass. After I relax I know Im gonna feel better though.
This is soooo true! And can be quite depressing when you are stretching your relaxer and it seems like your hair gets shorter every day....I have learned to embrace it though. You have shrinkage because of new growth.

Sorry you have been in the dumps Ms Devo (((((Hugs)))).
 
This is soooo true! And can be quite depressing when you are stretching your relaxer and it seems like your hair gets shorter every day....I have learned to embrace it though. You have shrinkage because of new growth.

Sorry you have been in the dumps Ms Devo (((((Hugs)))).

Good way of thinking about the new growth. It is pulling our hair up.
 
hi ladies - just checking in....last thursday, i got a dry trim of about an inch and she did really well (listened to what i wanted). last night i washed, dc'd and baggied overnite. i think next week it's the braids. i'm getting anxious and whenever that happens, i make some awful hair decision that's totally the opposite of what my long term goals are. this way, if i don't 'see' it...i can't mess it up!
btw - can i pick up amla oil from any beauty supply?
 
The other day I loved my hair. Today I HATE IT. I think its a bit of PMS though. When I went to do my evening moisturized I looked at my hair and started to cry:cry:I think my hair is in great condition but its not where I think it should be.

I get so tired of seeing progress pictures of people that use heat everyday and have gained a good amount of growth over the past years:perplexed. I then look at mine and say what the he!! am I doing wrong. :ohwell:
I dunno..... :sad:


MsDevo, you feelin better today? I think we all go through phases where we feel like our progress is not moving fast enough, but you did say you felt like your hair is in great cond., so that means you're on the right track:yep: sigh............. I guess we just have to be patient & we'll be there (APL) before we know it. HHG
 
Checking in. I am about 3 weeks post relaxer. I did an Ayurvedic co-wash this morning and conditioned with Nexxus Humectress.

Ya know, for the past couple of weeks I have been washing every other day with Nexxus Therapy, mixing Emergencee and Keraphix (leaving the mix in overnight) and using the Humectress as a leaving and my hair has NEVER felt better. I think that I will use up all of my products and stick with this regime for good.
 
I almost forgot I was participating in the challenge.

Here is my update pic for March:

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I need about 4-5 inches to get there. I am pretty sure I can do it though.

Happy Hair Growing Ladies.
 
Hi Ladies,
I'm checking in. I am still bunning it daily. I'm not really combing it or applying too much product because I'm afraid that will lead to shedding and breakage as my hair appears to break and shed whenever I apply conditioner, etc to it. I'm really loading up on supplements and I'm on my second week of Br*nze's shake. I don't plan on flat-ironing to check length until my niece's graduation in May. I can't wait to see all of our progress!
 
I'm a lil better today, thanks for asking. I couldnt wait til I got my new soft bonnet dryer so I am sitting here now DCing under this loud a$$ dryer trying to watch America Next Top Model, lol

I think my problem was that I wasnt using heat that much when I dc'd. I would just dc overnite. So once my dryer comes I will have no excuse for not using heat.

I keep saying to myself APL APL APL:grin:

MsDevo, you feelin better today? I think we all go through phases where we feel like our progress is not moving fast enough, but you did say you felt like your hair is in great cond., so that means you're on the right track:yep: sigh............. I guess we just have to be patient & we'll be there (APL) before we know it. HHG
 
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