I wouldn't do it....
If you have absolutely
no attraction to him at all... there is a likely chance that the feeling won't change. I also wouldn't force it. I've been in a situation like this, I met a guy when I was 19 and he was sooo kind and sweet and nice to me, not only to me, but just a great guy in general. Fast forward to my adult years, I started to go out w/ said guy when I was 25 and I felt more mentally mature but those feelings of unattraction were still there no matter how much I tried to rationalize the fact that he's a phenomenal person. I took my time, and we use to hang out on a platonic tip for about 3 months, one night we went out for dinner, we both were a little tipsy, outside of the restaurant he gave me a hug and tried to kiss me and I turned my head, in spite of my tipsyness, I cringed inside at the thought of being that close to him but my mind felt bad b/c I think he's really and truly a great guy. I'm an overthinker, so it bothered me... I tried to dig deep w/in myself to see if there was a reason(s) why I couldn't be attracted to someone who would make a damn near perfect mate. I started to feel really bad b/c I knew he was very attracted to me, and he genuinely likes me as a person, and I think it's only fair that the
same passion is reciprocated towards him. I'm now 28 and I still think he's such a great catch, he has all the real qualities you'd want in a man, not the superficial ones that many of us go for. However, I still don't think I'd get with him, that umph is just.not.there.
. The thought of him touching me gently just kinda makes me tense.
At the end of the day, we really can't help who we are attracted to and fall in love with. I think it just sort of happens sometimes, of course there are traits that we are looking for, but there is something else there that causes us to really fall for someone.