So long as he is attractive to you, other people's opinions shouldn't matter. Why are people so invested in other people's mates anyway? Men in general are less attractive than women and if looks is the number one priority, 80 percent of the people currently in relationships would be single right now. Men are supposed to be honorable providers and protectors. Looks is an added bonus. If he's hot and useless then he is not doing you any great favors.