CaraWalker
Well-Known Member
so i had a thought and i made a decision
im tired of going on dates. and they are no longer functionally appropriate for me. while dating (ie being asked out, going to a specific location or outing, being traditionally wooed in the manner that includes a formal date) may have achieved its goals for me in the past, i think at this point i am deciding that it is no longer the case. if anything i am becoming more jaded by dates that go nowhere, and they do not seem to advance the agenda of getting to know a person or deciding you are interested in them (him or me).
so, for me, i am no longer going on formal dates. i dont have anything else to prove there. i have 3 or 4 years of proper, ritzy, expensive, extensive, impressive, lovely, honorable dates under my belt. they were nice. and now im done.
so then, where does one go and/or what does one do when going on a first date, if not a formal date?
note: i am not looking for advice or explanations on how and why formal dating is necessary. yes, i know. i am looking for locations.
so far i have come up with accompanying me on errands i have to go to the post office to return this box
im tired of going on dates. and they are no longer functionally appropriate for me. while dating (ie being asked out, going to a specific location or outing, being traditionally wooed in the manner that includes a formal date) may have achieved its goals for me in the past, i think at this point i am deciding that it is no longer the case. if anything i am becoming more jaded by dates that go nowhere, and they do not seem to advance the agenda of getting to know a person or deciding you are interested in them (him or me).
so, for me, i am no longer going on formal dates. i dont have anything else to prove there. i have 3 or 4 years of proper, ritzy, expensive, extensive, impressive, lovely, honorable dates under my belt. they were nice. and now im done.
so then, where does one go and/or what does one do when going on a first date, if not a formal date?
note: i am not looking for advice or explanations on how and why formal dating is necessary. yes, i know. i am looking for locations.
so far i have come up with accompanying me on errands i have to go to the post office to return this box