WHEW!!!!!! this is a long thread & I've read every post but no one has asked (unless I missed it) if the actual clip is "gentle" in your hair. I stopped wearing barrettes with metal clasps long ago as they would break & tear my fragile, baby-fine hair with a true vengence...I LOVE the look of the UPA pony, so pretty & natural, but is it safe to wear???? I replaced all my cheap Goody-type hair accessories with the stress-free, plastic kinds (a la tenderheaded.com)...Maybe Michelle can "customize" a pony with a plastic or coated-metal clip???