isawstars
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We've been friends for 3 or 4 months... a couple for 1 month. His dad completely flipped out on him today about me being black. My bf won't tell me what all he said. All he would tell me was his dad said, "If you have a black baby, I will not acknowledge you as a part of this family" and how hurt he was. Granted, he has never gotten along with his dad... He makes a good point when he tells me although his dad is very ignorant... he's the only dad he has.
I asked him if he wants to stop dating me and he said he doesn't want to break up with me. He thinks I'm amazing and doesn't want to lose me. But I told him that he can't keep stringing me on if this is simply going to end because I already have strong feelings for him.
He couldn't even tell me if he forsees a break up in the future. He kept saying he needs this to sink in, he needs to think about everything... it only happened 5 hours ago. He then admitted this is why he never took me to his parents' house. He knew they were racist but he had no idea his dad would explode on him like that.
I am almost in tears. I've dated white guys my entire life and I've never experienced this. I feel like I'm in the script of a low-budget movie.
We didn't hang out long tonight....he promised he'd call me tomorrow after I got off work.
I asked him if he wants to stop dating me and he said he doesn't want to break up with me. He thinks I'm amazing and doesn't want to lose me. But I told him that he can't keep stringing me on if this is simply going to end because I already have strong feelings for him.
He couldn't even tell me if he forsees a break up in the future. He kept saying he needs this to sink in, he needs to think about everything... it only happened 5 hours ago. He then admitted this is why he never took me to his parents' house. He knew they were racist but he had no idea his dad would explode on him like that.
I am almost in tears. I've dated white guys my entire life and I've never experienced this. I feel like I'm in the script of a low-budget movie.
We didn't hang out long tonight....he promised he'd call me tomorrow after I got off work.
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