Brit031586
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My bestfriend was dating a guy for about 6 years they recently decided to break up because he wanted to "chill with his boys" well she was fine with the break up and she seemed to be concentrating on getting over him.
However last night he got drunk at a bar that her sister was also at so her sister and her sisters SO gave him a ride home. They then called my Bestie n told her the situation right after she spoke with her sister he called her to come over his house (mind you it was 330 am) since she was up she went... (Usually if he is drunk she wont go anywhere near him because of the fact that he gets violent and has hit her, dragged her out of her car by her hair and banged her head on the hood etc...) when she arrived at his house she asked him what they were doing she told him if they were broken up then she needed him to STOP everything (calling, texting etc) because she didnt have time for games he then proceeded to tell her that he loves her and wants to be with her. So after a few mins he asked her if she was going to spend the rest of the night there she told him no and proceeded to get up and leave.
At this point he begins to tell her he doesnt want to hurt her and that she should leave now... she tells him she is leaving... as she left she asked him was there someone else and he replied yes and she is outside! My bestie was in total shock and she just began walking to her car ( she had to go through the back door because her car was in the back) as she went through the back door he went through the front and proceeded to get the other girl who had just gotten dropped off at his house... As she drove down the street she passed them before they went in the house and he was pointing and telling the girl something...
I feel so bad because she is a great person she does anything to help other people she has been faithful to him and she put up with a lot of BS she is a very very pretty girl who could do so much better than him and i've told her to stop going back to him but at this point I dont know what else to say she just keeps crying because of the hurt and betrayal she feels... I dont know what to say to her. What would you ladies say?
However last night he got drunk at a bar that her sister was also at so her sister and her sisters SO gave him a ride home. They then called my Bestie n told her the situation right after she spoke with her sister he called her to come over his house (mind you it was 330 am) since she was up she went... (Usually if he is drunk she wont go anywhere near him because of the fact that he gets violent and has hit her, dragged her out of her car by her hair and banged her head on the hood etc...) when she arrived at his house she asked him what they were doing she told him if they were broken up then she needed him to STOP everything (calling, texting etc) because she didnt have time for games he then proceeded to tell her that he loves her and wants to be with her. So after a few mins he asked her if she was going to spend the rest of the night there she told him no and proceeded to get up and leave.
At this point he begins to tell her he doesnt want to hurt her and that she should leave now... she tells him she is leaving... as she left she asked him was there someone else and he replied yes and she is outside! My bestie was in total shock and she just began walking to her car ( she had to go through the back door because her car was in the back) as she went through the back door he went through the front and proceeded to get the other girl who had just gotten dropped off at his house... As she drove down the street she passed them before they went in the house and he was pointing and telling the girl something...
I feel so bad because she is a great person she does anything to help other people she has been faithful to him and she put up with a lot of BS she is a very very pretty girl who could do so much better than him and i've told her to stop going back to him but at this point I dont know what else to say she just keeps crying because of the hurt and betrayal she feels... I dont know what to say to her. What would you ladies say?