humility1990
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Since the divorce rate has shot up since our modern attitude to marriage, would you marry for 'love' or financial reasons?
QFT.Hope I'm not going too far off base, but lack of financial stability is a deal breaker. I don't care how much I love/like you. I can do bad by myself. He doesn't have to be a millionaire, but he better have some assets. I'm too old to be tied up with some broke dude. Men in my age group should be solid.
Love. Money, circumstances, and financial status' change. Genuine love is long lasting.
I realize most would look down on my point of view, but I believe moral code has priority. - the other things fall into place.
Peoples lives and careers evolve/grow as time passes, what a person is today does not guarantee what he will be tomorrow.
I would never court a guy that can hardly care for himself.