Glib Gurl
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I have a good friend who is in a rotten marriage. Her husband is a lousy mate. I won't get into any details (because it's not my place to put her business on the internet), but suffice it to say that he is completely and totally inconsiderate and selfish. (And it doesn't help that my friend is extremely giving of herself.) Really, he's like a teenager inhabiting a 40 year old's body.
She is inching closer to giving him an ultimatum, but admits that she doesn't want to get rid of him because she doesn't want to be "alone." (She admits that she is "lonely" in the marriage, but still feels that's better than literally being "alone.") She is in her late 30s and doesn't feel like she would be able to find another husband. (She is like me - one of those girls who is very shy with men and has not dated much.)
I have been thinking about this situation and can't decide which is worse - *Chris Rock voice* being married and unhappy or single and lonely?
Any thoughts (other than "She needs to kick that chump to the curb!")?
She is inching closer to giving him an ultimatum, but admits that she doesn't want to get rid of him because she doesn't want to be "alone." (She admits that she is "lonely" in the marriage, but still feels that's better than literally being "alone.") She is in her late 30s and doesn't feel like she would be able to find another husband. (She is like me - one of those girls who is very shy with men and has not dated much.)
I have been thinking about this situation and can't decide which is worse - *Chris Rock voice* being married and unhappy or single and lonely?
Any thoughts (other than "She needs to kick that chump to the curb!")?