werenumber2
Well-Known Member
So I’ve been married for three whole years now and still haven’t officially changed my name.
I didn’t realize that I would have to make the decision the day we applied for the marriage certificate, and I ended up choosing to hyphenate under pressure. Now I keep coming across experiences of women who say it’s totally annoying having a hyphenated name - people end up dropping your married name out of laziness, computer records don’t always register hyphens and screw up the name, etc.
I’m guessing that I would have to go back to the New York courthouse to get an amended marriage certificate if I decide to switch solely to my husband’s name, which sounds like a pain in the behind. We have a child now (who has his father’s last name) so I don’t want to complicate life by just saying screw it and keeping my maiden name completely. What say y’all?
I didn’t realize that I would have to make the decision the day we applied for the marriage certificate, and I ended up choosing to hyphenate under pressure. Now I keep coming across experiences of women who say it’s totally annoying having a hyphenated name - people end up dropping your married name out of laziness, computer records don’t always register hyphens and screw up the name, etc.
I’m guessing that I would have to go back to the New York courthouse to get an amended marriage certificate if I decide to switch solely to my husband’s name, which sounds like a pain in the behind. We have a child now (who has his father’s last name) so I don’t want to complicate life by just saying screw it and keeping my maiden name completely. What say y’all?