Long hair ladies, can I live vicariously through you?

[Janet']

Ladies...I just love ya'll, LOL...I CANNOT WAIT

 

[zzirvingj]

There's nothing quite like a good hair day when your hair catches a bit of a breeze while you're out enjoying a warm summer day and blows it ever-so-sexily (is that a word??) in the wind. LOL.

It can make you feel a little like you're in a Pantene commercial or something when you're out and about and this happens. Especially if you've got the clothes on point as well. Ah, I miss spring/summer so much right now.

 

[exoticmommie]

I don't know how I missed this thread. I can't respond like I want, gotta keep it pg on the board. But I love love rolling around with dh with my hair down. It just feels so good.

Maybe you can talk in codes

I'm gonna try...

So I have a big shower, and me and DH like to party in there. I be slanging what little bit of hair I have around. Boy, I can't wait till I can really slang it.

There's nothing quite like a good hair day when your hair catches a bit of a breeze while you're out enjoying a warm summer day and blows it ever-so-sexily (is that a word??) in the wind. LOL.

It can make you feel a little like you're in a Pantene commercial or something when you're out and about and this happens. Especially if you've got the clothes on point as well. Ah, I miss spring/summer so much right now.

I too miss the summer days! And that is a word in my book.

BTW, BOUT TIME YOU CAME TO SHARE.

 

[BeautifulFlower]

Hey Exoticmommie,

First, your children are super beautiful. I love it.

Now to hair. I must say my SO says I gets no brownie point for have MBL+ hair. He doesnt care as long as its at least SL. Now, this is tragic news to me considering I started growing my hair for my previous SO and to have a man now that doesnt care as long as I look good, its blah. BUT....

He lying because when I have my hair out and down he always looks at me a little different. And when he sees me, its always..."Your hair is really long!" Yeah, you dont care, you lying. LOL! And then if I rock a Farrah Fawcett curl or a nice pin curl, he's like, "I like that. Keep doing that."

I must admit its more difficult to style because its alot and my new growth is crazy thick by week 6 so I do alot of french braids, braidouts, and ponytails. But when I do flat iron (or rollerset if I am crazy enough to roll this stuff), I feel so sexy and beautiful. Its easier to maintain my hair now with a pin curl and let it out in the morning and its still beautiful. I love washing and co-washing because I love the water on my scalp and hair on my back. I love the reactions I get from people that know I wear weaves but see my real hair and say, "Dang, your real hair longer. Whats up with that?"

I love it when people look at my hair twice as if to look for texture inconsistencies. LOL!

I love being able to cut my ends and not worry that my hair will look short after but it actually looks healthy, thicker, and longer.

I love playing with my hair "white-girl" style. Tossing and twhirling around me finger.

I love it when falls from my back to the front and I have to toss it back. But that can also be really annoying.

I love my texlax-like texture because when I do a co-wash, and tie down over night, my hair looks wavy and long and people think I have "good hair" and thats why I have long hair. LOL! NOT! I'm as nappy-kinky as the next girl.

Long hair is work but its worth it most days. Other days my new growth makes me want to scare but it doesnt help to give my hair volume when I flat iron.

 

[dlewis]

prettyfaceANB don't listen to them. They all lie.

I posted this on my board blog awhile back.

never listen to what a man says
Posted 09-23-2009 at 10:21 AM by dlewis

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I was in the tub this morning and Dh was keeping me company. I was detangling my hair and beyond frustrated. I asked him to pass me the scissors and he's looking for them in my secret spot. (Every pair of scissors I get for my hair he uses it on his beard and to cut tags off clothes, so I have to hide my good scissors) Then he asks me "why do you need the scissors?. I said "I'm gonna cut this hair off". He stops in his tracks and said "DON'T CUT IT BEFORE SATURDAY!!!" I said "why". He explains, "Well they're having that company picnic and I wanted you to wear your hair down" AND he had picked out this outfit for me to wear. This outfit shows my curves, boobs and my smaller waist.

So I'm thinking, you were against my growing my hair (said I would look like a witch) and you were against me losing weight (said you like big women even though I was stick thin when he got together) BUT you seem awfully happy about both of these changes.


MEN!!!!

 

[BeautifulFlower]

prettyfaceANB don't listen to them. They all lie.

I posted this on my board blog awhile back.

These ninja's. LOL @ him picking out your outfit. He showing off his prize.

 

[exoticmommie]

Hey Exoticmommie,

First, your children are super beautiful. I love it.

Now to hair. I must say my SO says I gets no brownie point for have MBL+ hair. He doesnt care as long as its at least SL. Now, this is tragic news to me considering I started growing my hair for my previous SO and to have a man now that doesnt care as long as I look good, its blah. BUT....

He lying because when I have my hair out and down he always looks at me a little different. And when he sees me, its always..."Your hair is really long!" Yeah, you dont care, you lying. LOL! And then if I rock a Farrah Fawcett curl or a nice pin curl, he's like, "I like that. Keep doing that."

I must admit its more difficult to style because its alot and my new growth is crazy thick by week 6 so I do alot of french braids, braidouts, and ponytails. But when I do flat iron (or rollerset if I am crazy enough to roll this stuff), I feel so sexy and beautiful. Its easier to maintain my hair now with a pin curl and let it out in the morning and its still beautiful. I love washing and co-washing because I love the water on my scalp and hair on my back. I love the reactions I get from people that know I wear weaves but see my real hair and say, "Dang, your real hair longer. Whats up with that?"

I love it when people look at my hair twice as if to look for texture inconsistencies. LOL!

I love being able to cut my ends and not worry that my hair will look short after but it actually looks healthy, thicker, and longer.

I love playing with my hair "white-girl" style. Tossing and twhirling around me finger.

I love it when falls from my back to the front and I have to toss it back. But that can also be really annoying.

I love my texlax-like texture because when I do a co-wash, and tie down over night, my hair looks wavy and long and people think I have "good hair" and thats why I have long hair. LOL! NOT! I'm as nappy-kinky as the next girl.

Long hair is work but its worth it most days. Other days my new growth makes me want to scare but it doesnt help to give my hair volume when I flat iron.

Awww thanks!

Girl, I agree, Like D said, they be lying. DH also made it seem like it was no big deal when I first started, he was supportive but didn't really pay any attention. When I finally got to shoulder length, he paid more attention.

Well now that I told him it's ok touch my hair (I never told him he couldn't, and never really cared until reading stories on the board, , but I guess it was ingrained in his head to not touch black women hair ) he be touching it all the time, and looking at it, and just staring. Maybe you should tell him to touch it more.

I cannot wait to be able to have a long swanging wash and go pony tail, with a wavy top.

 

[dlewis]

Awww thanks!

Girl, I agree, Like D said, they be lying. DH also made it seem like it was no big deal when I first started, he was supportive but didn't really pay any attention. When I finally got to shoulder length, he paid more attention.

Well now that I told him it's ok touch my hair (I never told him he couldn't, and never really cared until reading stories on the board, , but I guess it was ingrained in his head to not touch black women hair ) he be touching it all the time, and looking at it, and just staring. Maybe you should tell him to touch it more.

I cannot wait to be able to have a long swanging wash and go pony tail, with a wavy top.

They like it. I know during our special time he loves it when it's down...long hair swinging and getting caught. I have been know to say "yea, it's more than my hair here", or "you better not pull my hair that hard again".

 

[caribeandiva]

im having a moment. i cant stop combing hair. hair just drops down my back. everybody in classs looks at my hair!!!!! it so thick and wavy. <--about the cry
i love having longhair!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
sometimes i be like "dam my hair is long!"

i stood in front of mirror tonight like "is this really all your hair adora?" and i answer "why, yes it is" ahhhhaahahahaha. when i bend to pick something up it all swings to one side, like what??!~!!!!!

lol ok ok ok ima calm down now.................SIKE, I AINT GONNA CALM DOWN, i grew my own hair, im AA and i grew long hair, im a black girl and i grew long as$ hair!!!

why wont my friends just listen to me about the moisture and protein thing, just whyyyy,

eta, and my fricken buns are fricken huge!!! when i was a little girl i use to envy spanish/white/asia et, girl with long hair and big buns, and now hahahahahahaha, well you know.

*swings hair as i leaves thread*

This post made my day!

 

[calibella218]

Well, I guess I don't have a "fantasy" but I do have a funny story. I had pretty long hair as a child/teen but after I took it into my own hands, it started to get shorter and more damaged. So I have been trying to get my hair healthy for about a year and a half now and now I am at full BSB/BSL. My mom lives on the east coast and I live in California. I have not seen her in almost 1 year but last week she came to visit. I rollerset my hair and flat ironed my roots and pincurled(7 months post!) and I think it came out pretty nice, if I do say so myself But I really did not expect my mom to really care. She is the type who cuts and dyes and hacks off her hair without a second thought. "It's hair, it grows back!"

So I meet her at her hotel and right away she starts oohing and aahing over my hair. She went on and on. "Oh my gosh, look at your hair!" "Look at all of that hair!" "It's so healthy and thick!" I laughed and thanked her. When we went to visit some family members she would make it a point to bring my hair into the conversation She'd be looking all proud! It was funny but nothing compared to what happened next. We went to dinner with some girlfriends one night and a man started chatting us up while we were waiting to be seated. The man then turns to me and says he just wants to run his fingers through my hair erplexed Before I could respond my mom quietly and politely ripped him a new one. I was but then I was . But I actually did feel bad for that man, my mom is a pitbull. Anyway, it was just kind of odd and a bit funny to see my mom act this way about my hair all week. A few days after she went back home she emailed me a picture of her with a long dark wig with soft ringlets that sits at about MBL (my mom wears a pixie) on her. She told me she bought wig because it looked like my hair. I started and thanked her for the compliment. She is a trip y'all. But it did feel good to inspire someone, she's been asking me which products to buy and stuff. My sister also wants me to build her a regimen!

 

[exoticmommie]

Well, I guess I don't have a "fantasy" but I do have a funny story. I had pretty long hair as a child/teen but after I took it into my own hands, it started to get shorter and more damaged. So I have been trying to get my hair healthy for about a year and a half now and now I am at full BSB/BSL. My mom lives on the east coast and I live in California. I have not seen her in almost 1 year but last week she came to visit. I rollerset my hair and flat ironed my roots and pincurled(7 months post!) and I think it came out pretty nice, if I do say so myself But I really did not expect my mom to really care. She is the type who cuts and dyes and hacks off her hair without a second thought. "It's hair, it grows back!"

So I meet her at her hotel and right away she starts oohing and aahing over my hair. She went on and on. "Oh my gosh, look at your hair!" "Look at all of that hair!" "It's so healthy and thick!" I laughed and thanked her. When we went to visit some family members she would make it a point to bring my hair into the conversation She'd be looking all proud! It was funny but nothing compared to what happened next. We went to dinner with some girlfriends one night and a man started chatting us up while we were waiting to be seated. The man then turns to me and says he just wants to run his fingers through my hair erplexed Before I could respond my mom quietly and politely ripped him a new one. I was but then I was . But I actually did feel bad for that man, my mom is a pitbull. Anyway, it was just kind of odd and a bit funny to see my mom act this way about my hair all week. A few days after she went back home she emailed me a picture of her with a long dark wig with soft ringlets that sits at about MBL (my mom wears a pixie) on her. She told me she bought wig because it looked like my hair. I started and thanked her for the compliment. She is a trip y'all. But it did feel good to inspire someone, she's been asking me which products to buy and stuff. My sister also wants me to build her a regimen!

You go girl!! That's what I am waiting on.

When I had to go home on short notice, people would ask my DH or my Mom if my hair was real. They both were so proud and would say, yeah that's hers.

 

[Anacaona]

Awww I was missing this thread...bumping!

 

[caribeandiva]

Well, I guess I don't have a "fantasy" but I do have a funny story. I had pretty long hair as a child/teen but after I took it into my own hands, it started to get shorter and more damaged. So I have been trying to get my hair healthy for about a year and a half now and now I am at full BSB/BSL. My mom lives on the east coast and I live in California. I have not seen her in almost 1 year but last week she came to visit. I rollerset my hair and flat ironed my roots and pincurled(7 months post!) and I think it came out pretty nice, if I do say so myself But I really did not expect my mom to really care. She is the type who cuts and dyes and hacks off her hair without a second thought. "It's hair, it grows back!"

So I meet her at her hotel and right away she starts oohing and aahing over my hair. She went on and on. "Oh my gosh, look at your hair!" "Look at all of that hair!" "It's so healthy and thick!" I laughed and thanked her. When we went to visit some family members she would make it a point to bring my hair into the conversation She'd be looking all proud! It was funny but nothing compared to what happened next. We went to dinner with some girlfriends one night and a man started chatting us up while we were waiting to be seated. The man then turns to me and says he just wants to run his fingers through my hair erplexed Before I could respond my mom quietly and politely ripped him a new one. I was but then I was . But I actually did feel bad for that man, my mom is a pitbull. Anyway, it was just kind of odd and a bit funny to see my mom act this way about my hair all week. A few days after she went back home she emailed me a picture of her with a long dark wig with soft ringlets that sits at about MBL (my mom wears a pixie) on her. She told me she bought wig because it looked like my hair. I started and thanked her for the compliment. She is a trip y'all. But it did feel good to inspire someone, she's been asking me which products to buy and stuff. My sister also wants me to build her a regimen!

Your mom is funny but I feel bad for that poor man.

 

[tasha7239]

Exoticmommie this is one of the BEST topics ever. I actually read all 30 pages and have been dying laughing. I love the stories. I am not able to post much. I am still burning in the desert but I must say that my has done a total 360 since joining LCHF. All you ladies with hair swag..u are well deserving of it. I can not wait until it is my turn. Me and one of my battle buddies were just talking about this the other day. I cant wait to be on the crosstrainer and my ponytail swinging from side to side. I will be swinging my hair so much I will probably break my on neck LOL. To all the ladies who are in the process like me our time is coming....the world better watch out.

HHG

 

[exoticmommie]

Exoticmommie this is one of the BEST topics ever. I actually read all 30 pages and have been dying laughing. I love the stories. I am not able to post much. I am still burning in the desert but I must say that my has done a total 360 since joining LCHF. All you ladies with hair swag..u are well deserving of it. I can not wait until it is my turn. Me and one of my battle buddies were just talking about this the other day. I cant wait to be on the crosstrainer and my ponytail swinging from side to side. I will be swinging my hair so much I will probably break my on neck LOL. To all the ladies who are in the process like me our time is coming....the world better watch out.

HHG

Girl I am right there with you, breaking necks and all.

 

[supermodelsonya]

bump

 

[Bene]

I washed my hair last night, but before I did my moisturizing and oiling while it was damp, I had to go under my bed to look for some flip flops. I was being lazy so instead of getting on the floor, I bent over. My hair was down. I couldn't see I learned that I can't go digging under the bed with my hair loose.

 

[I Am So Blessed]

I washed my hair last night, but before I did my moisturizing and oiling while it was damp, I had to go under my bed to look for some flip flops. I was being lazy so instead of getting on the floor, I bent over. My hair was down. I couldn't see I learned that I can't go digging under the bed with my hair loose.

lol same thing happend to me, and once the front section of hair fell in toilet when i bent over to pick something up. ewww, im happy there was no pee in it lol............ "she didnt have to go there".........yea i did (smiles)

 

[momi]

My hair is like this secret weapon...the cherry on the sundae. When I meet my brothers friends and give them the flirty look he has to go out of his way to tell people THIS IS MY SISTER maddd loud because for the previous 15 minutes they were trying to get my number untill he introduces me and gives them the look of murder lmao! My brothers friends are HOT I can't help it lol they're already interested in me from when they see me from the front....then I abruptly turn around and all they can see is long hair and booty.......my brother has cut off a few of his friends over me thru the yrs I'm horrible.

Long hair and booty - girl i ain't mad atcha!

 

[brg240]

my comment got eaten I don't feel like typing everything out again, sorry.

Something unpleasant for ya'll to look forward to, my hair gets caught in my armpits sometimes.

So I started a thread yesterday and mentioned that Amerie was my hair and body inspiration. Then I noticed in the recent pic my hair seems to be about the same length and I was like

I am goofy and do this all the time. I love doing the hair flip

Fantasy
I light weight want someone to make a mean comment about my hair so I can be like this.

but really this thread gives me ideas

 

[I Am So Blessed]

wow all the fliping i was doing last night while "coloring" was out of this world!!

 

[teysmith]

lol ^^^^^^

 

[robot.]

I am goofy and do this all the time. I love doing the hair flip

OH, oh oh oh!

 

[♥Lamaravilla♥]

wow all the fliping i was doing last night while "coloring" was out of this world!!

Girl you're strange, you know that?

 

[I Am So Blessed]

Girl you're strange, you know that?

stange as in, "not normal"? yup, and i would never want to be NORMAL, who wants to be like "everyone else?"

i guess this is why i have so many people attacted to me, everyday huh lol, and lots or freinds, and "wanna be" Lovers ahahaha

thanks for that lovely compliment lady!!!

 

[NJoy]

I can't believe I've been bypassing this thread!! I guess it's because it was addressed to "Long hair ladies". This thread is hilarious! I'm still reading through all the posts. I'm on page 12 and decided I MUST subscribe to this one.

I WISH my hair was long enough to share some stories but, with the long-haired divas sharing so far, I'm not worthy.

All I can say is you can't tell me nuthin now. Let my hair get to MBL. Shiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiid. I KNOW I'm gonna be a hot mess! And as for the haters, I'll be strutting to Jill Scott's "Hate on me" in my heels, sporting my stunna shades and flowing in full diva mode. Hello?! *snaps* And in my own mind I'll be moving in slo mo while getting in my Lexus and hearing the chorus to Fergie's "Glamorous". Oh yes. I will be fully Divalicious!

And WL?! Please! You don't even wanna know.

 

[Black Hoya Chick]

i had a moment in the shower 2 days ago. i was cowashing and i lifted all of my hair up to make sure the conditioner was reaching my nape and edges back there. i let it go and i actually left weight and a tug on my head when it hit my back. i was TOO excited. ll

 

[I Am So Blessed]

I can't believe I've been bypassing this thread!! I guess it's because it was addressed to "Long hair ladies". This thread is hilarious! I'm still reading through all the posts. I'm on page 12 and decided I MUST subscribe to this one.

I WISH my hair was long enough to share some stories but, with the long-haired divas sharing so far, I'm not worthy.

All I can say is you can't tell me nuthin now. Let my hair get to MBL. Shiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiid. I KNOW I'm gonna be a hot mess! And as for the haters, I'll be strutting to Jill Scott's "Hate on me" in my heels, sporting my stunna shades and flowing in full diva mode. Hello?! *snaps* And in my own mind I'll be moving in slo mo while getting in my Lexus and hearing the chorus to Fergie's "Glamorous". Oh yes. I will be fully Divalicious!

And WL?! Please! You don't even wanna know.

ok, that was a fricken awesome post right thurr^^^^

 

[My Friend]

 

[Mizz Diamonds]

ah this thread right hyuh, is a good thread.