LavenderMint
Well-Known Member
Good luck @caltron! That sounds like a good plan. They may surprise you though- the most ignorant, hurtful & disrespectful comments I got during my transition to natural and to locs were from other blk people & family. Your coworkers may have questions or be curious but don't feel pressured to be their answer box. Usually, the question I got was "that's beautiful, how do you get your hair to do that" which I didn't see as intrusive or rude.
I've been plotting my move to locs. I am one of very few blacks in my workplace, and the most of the whites I work with are not cool. I think for the next few months I'm going to start wearing kinky twists to get them used to more natural-inspired hairstyling. Then I'll move to some starter locs. I'm not sure how my starter locs will be received and I'm afraid that some smart comments will undermine my confidence and cause me to give up. I'm wondering if I should wear them under a wig at work until I feel confident enough in them myself to "come out" and give them a chance to mature.