Liars

[sherrimberri]

My ex was a pathological liar. He lied about any and everything. He lied to me and said he didnt work when i first him. All along he'd been working for the post office for the six years before we met. I couldnt understand it, why lie about a job? I began to think lying just ran in his family because his son was the same way, lied about any and everything. No advice OPvjust sharing my experience.

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[Natty_Virgo]

My ex was a pathological liar. He lied about any and everything. He lied to me and said he didnt work when i first him. All along he'd been working for the post office for the six years before we met. I couldnt understand it, why lie about a job? I began to think lying just ran in his family because his son was the same way, lied about any and everything. No advice OPvjust sharing my experience.

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Who lies and says they don't have a job! Lol that is crazy.

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[Natty_Virgo]

Ex-husband did the same to me. Plus he lied by omission and that burns me up. I tell men I meet and if I see a potential future with them that lying by omission is the same is just straight out lying in my book.

Yes! I hate when ppl lie by omission like that isn't lying cause I didn't ask in a certain way. Smh

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[SummerSolstice]

I'm not sure if full disclosure is the best either

LOL I am so late. It probably isn't best for most but he and I have both been through a lot. This is a new relationship so I will most likely adjust but recently we just say everything. We can look at each other and be like "what are you thinking" and then eventually coax whatever it is out of each other. Sometimes its very interesting and one time I got butt hurt but I felt better knowing. I'll make a thread post about this after a few months just to see if it works.

 

[SummerSolstice]

Yes! I hate when ppl lie by omission like that isn't lying cause I didn't ask in a certain way. Smh

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its passive aggressive behavior. i do this a lot with my parents. i have to really make an effort to avoid doing it to other people. for me it comes from being open with my folks as a child and getting in trouble for it. Ie... Did you break the lamp? Yes of course I did. -insert spanking here-

 

[ThickHair]

its passive aggressive behavior. i do this a lot with my parents. i have to really make an effort to avoid doing it to other people. for me it comes from being open with my folks as a child and getting in trouble for it. Ie... Did you break the lamp? Yes of course I did. -insert spanking here-

Oh, I already stated that he was P\A in many P\A threads. He was a Narcassitic P\A, the worst kind.

 

[Natty_Virgo]

its passive aggressive behavior. i do this a lot with my parents. i have to really make an effort to avoid doing it to other people. for me it comes from being open with my folks as a child and getting in trouble for it. Ie... Did you break the lamp? Yes of course I did. -insert spanking here-

Yes it is and he is very PA. He says he is scared of what I might do to him, dude I am not about to stab you.

 

[SummerSolstice]

Yes it is and he is very PA. He says he is scared of what I might do to him, dude I am not about to stab you.

maybe there is someone better out there for you?

 

[NYAmicas]

I dont do liars, esp if I see it's a habit.

 

[napbella]

My X was a serial liar. Lied just like he was breathing--all the time. The first 2 yrs I was just confused because I didn't get it. I figured I must have either misunderstood or misheard the info or something, cuz I tend to give ppl the benefit of the doubt. Then I started paying attention and listening to him talk to others and I could just pick out the lies he spouted. I was stunned. And when I confronted him he would say "well, what I meant was...". We would get into arguments and I would repeat what he just said and he would deny it! So I threatened to record his a**. This fool even told folks we were ministers in a church. I was done yall. The really sad part--he comes from a family of liars. You don't believe this ish until you live it. Amazing. Run girl.