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:wow: did you know sooo soon that he was the one? Was it a fairytale knowing or a practical feeling that you felt the two of you were very compatible????
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Yeah we both new right away, it was just weird and organic at the same time. When were dating for the short period of time we did, we would talk about having a child together, what would the name be, etc. Two years after getting married, we had our girl and named her as we discussed.
The first time my mom met him, she knew he was the one. She said she just knew it. And I knew it, it was like we knew each other and we were reuniting. It was just too easy and comfortable. It's really hard to explain, especially with the headaches when he left during the week day. We lived 4 hours away, so after the weekends where he would come visit me, when he left it just felt odd. We would talk every night and watch TV for hours on the phone together...just breathing in each others ear. We would be on the phone surfing the internet in silence.
I had a really good support system, so when he flew in, my mom or my son's father's parents would keep my son. I was really trying to get to know him as much as I could before introducing him to my son. And when they did meet, they connected like glue. There wasn't much time thereafter when we got married.
I did check him out in terms of asking about credit (we pulled each others credit reports around week 3). Actually now that I think about this, we married in 8 weeks from the time we physically saw each other, talked for two weeks before that. When I visited him on base he introduced me to his boss, friends and coworkers and gathered as much information as I could from them from stories they would tell about working with him etc.
Anyways, I asked for a confirmed clean of STD and AID/HIV test and so did he. We exchanged that info.
Now I made the mistake when I didn't ask about or meet my Mother In-Law.