Ladies In A Relationship, How Long Did You Wait To Buss It Open For Your Man?

[*SkolarStar*]

Based on the recent threads, I figured that I can be a little crass too, but only in the thread title.

But the root of the question isn't crass at all. It's quite simple. How long did you wait to have sex?

I'm in a period of deciding what is considered the right time. Is it until I'm married? In a relationship? Is it something that me and him discuss? (Whoever the him is because I'm single and sexless) So I'm asking other people.

How long did the two of you wait? Was it a length of time that you decided or did the two of you decide it together?

 

[Supervixen]

It's Sunday!! Buss It Open

 

[kupenda]

If you have to ask, you arent ready. I buss it open whenever im good and ready. If i want itby month two, i bring it up. But you also need to accept any and all complications that could arise from that. I dont see any benefit to making myself wait when i have access to a perfectly fine crayon already. But thats just me

 

[Lucie]

The title is great.

 

[GeorginaSparks]

waiting to hear the
"on my wedding night"
"2 years after dating"

responses


where the freaks????

ok sorry not trying to alienate anyone? i buss it open whenever i damn want to

 

[Supervixen]

waiting to hear the
"on my wedding night"
"2 years after dating"

responses


where the freaks????

ok sorry not trying to alienate anyone? i buss it open whenever i damn want to

I like you!!!!

 

[LivingInPeace]

With my husband it was about two months after we started dating. That was a stretch for me.

 

[curlicarib]

When I want. Last SO, 3 months, was together over 13 years. Before him, 3rd date, was together 4 years. A few one night stands that I only wanted sex from. One HS/college sweetheart, 4 years before we got it in.

Working on one now. It's been 2 months. But I messed up. We watched an old Eddie Murphy comedy show and in part of it he did a skit about white men having no a*s. It was funny as sh*t and I was belly laughing. Well, he's white with little a*s. Now I think he's self conscience. I'll have him eventually though.

 

[Royalty8790]

Well I waited until my wedding night but we only dated a year. I called my mom the night before and cried, I don't think I could lose my virginity, she laughed. I'm young sooooooooooooo............

 

[Rocky91]

3 months after we met.

i've always done differently depending on my goals.
a guy who i'm just tryna have fun with=anytime i damn well please. could be the same night.
a guy who i'm serious about/marriage material=2-3 months

 

[UmSumayyah]

waiting to hear the
"on my wedding night"
"2 years after dating"

responses


where the freaks????

ok sorry not trying to alienate anyone? i buss it open whenever i damn want to

After I got married.... because that's what I wanted to do. Your wait I s over, bring on the freaks!

 

[RocStar]

I'm in a period of deciding what is considered the right time. Is it until I'm married? In a relationship? Is it something that me and him discuss? (Whoever the him is because I'm single and sexless) So I'm asking other people.

How long did the two of you wait? Was it a length of time that you decided or did the two of you decide it together?

You won't know when the right time is until you are actually in the relationship. Don't waste your time pondering these questions, because there is no one answer or no one right answer. Too many variables. When you are in it, you will know.

 

[lesedi]

This is just for intercourse right? When did you all get your non-penetrative freak on?

 

[Froreal3]

Ummm...the first day.

Previously about 3 months.

 

[summertimewine]

**** if I make it past the first night of announced exclusivity then it's a blessing

 

[shespoison]

Usually the day before we get together it's apart of the try out process.

 

[DarkAngell]

Dh and i were just talking about this. He reminded me we got down on the first night we met.....and also the second night. I had completely forgotten! I can't even lie....older me judged the **** out of younger me! That was 12 years ago and i was 21 and if recall correctly I had an IDGAF attitude about pretty much everything.

 

[TamedTresses]

When I want. Last SO, 3 months, was together over 13 years. Before him, 3rd date, was together 4 years. A few one night stands that I only wanted sex from. One HS/college sweetheart, 4 years before we got it in.

Working on one now. It's been 2 months. But I messed up. We watched an old Eddie Murphy comedy show and in part of it he did a skit about white men having no a*s. It was funny as sh*t and I was belly laughing. Well, he's white with little a*s. Now I think he's self conscience. I'll have him eventually though.

That gave me a good belly laugh. Hope he gets over it soon.

 

[Bunnyhaslonghair]

Well I waited until my wedding night but we only dated a year. I called my mom the night before and cried, I don't think I could lose my virginity, she laughed. I'm young sooooooooooooo............

Aww this is the most innocent post I've read on here . That must have been a lot of pressure for you. I could have broken down too.

 

[jasmine26]

Second date.... had instant sexual connection. Going on 3 yrs and a baby!

 

[GodsPromises]

With my husband we waited until our wedding night dated one year and it was the best decision ever made.

 

[JerriBlank]

waiting to hear the
"on my wedding night"
"2 years after dating"

responses


where the freaks????

ok sorry not trying to alienate anyone? i buss it open whenever i damn want to

This gif!
Tearssss!!!

 

[Dalisha]

DH said 3 weeks after we met...

 

[ElizaBlue]

1 month...I really had to be sure I wouldn't run and gun...he's got a really big heart...among other things. Ah well...it's been 8 months now and all is good!

 

[HappywithJC723]

With me and DH it was after about 2 weeks of seeing each other casually and talking....no regrets

 

[Honey Bee]

where the freaks????

We emailed for a while, then I invited him over and f***ed him. Called my girls the next day like, 'Alright bi****s, you on your own. '

 

[LoveLiLi]

Well... Let's see. We knew each other for 4 months and did a lot of talking and flirting.

I avoided being alone with him because I knew what would happen - the attraction was insane.

Just like I thought, the moment we were alone together it turned into a Zane novel. I'm lightweight shocked at our behavior.

Life is funny. I've waited several months after being exclusive to have sex, followed all the rules and regretted wasting my time on a POS.

I ignore every rule with my current SO and end up with the most loving man I've met in my life. Crazy.

 

[UniquelyDivine]

It's varied for me, with my first it was like 2 weeks after we started dating but we had flirted for over a year and were together close to 7 years.

With my next boo I waited 2-3 months and we were together a little less than a year. I'm currently on a 9 month peen drought and I just started talking to a sexy arse mo-fo so I'm not sure how long I'll hold out this time.

 

[DarkJoy]

Depends on the dynamic with the man.

 

[Fine 4s]

I'm busting up laughing over here.