ZLUVSNEWZEE
Well-Known Member
When your SO/Dh/Fh tells you to shut up do you? I don't mean if he's just the kind of guy to bark shut up at you all the time. But if you're arguing and he says you need to just shut up right now, or can you just shut up now , do you shut up. I remember watching Dr. Phil once, yes I said Dr Phil, and he was saying when your man tells you to shut up to salvage the relationship or repair it, you're supposed to shut up.
I know I can go too far and I use my mouth as a weapon but being told to shut up only fuels it. If I have something to say I'll say it until my point is made.
Before he told me to shut up he asked me why I gotta be a nag and said I must be cheating because I'm acting as if I'm trying to push him away. I was beyond offended. I refuse to be passive and submissive just to keep a man around. We bear a lot at the hands of men and for nagging to be the reason for a guy to threaten to leave really pisses me off. That makes me feel like well leave then ninja cause I'm going to nag all day and night just because. Like we want to nag...no we just rather you not do the ish ... And I hate when men forget that there are 6 billion plus people on this planet and somebody will come knocking when you go walking. Sorry for ranting but I still want to hear your feedback on this just shut up bidness.
I know I can go too far and I use my mouth as a weapon but being told to shut up only fuels it. If I have something to say I'll say it until my point is made.
Before he told me to shut up he asked me why I gotta be a nag and said I must be cheating because I'm acting as if I'm trying to push him away. I was beyond offended. I refuse to be passive and submissive just to keep a man around. We bear a lot at the hands of men and for nagging to be the reason for a guy to threaten to leave really pisses me off. That makes me feel like well leave then ninja cause I'm going to nag all day and night just because. Like we want to nag...no we just rather you not do the ish ... And I hate when men forget that there are 6 billion plus people on this planet and somebody will come knocking when you go walking. Sorry for ranting but I still want to hear your feedback on this just shut up bidness.