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I've been friends with this guy for about 3 years...when we met I wasn't ready to be serious with anyone b/c my ex and I were on one of our many breaks. When we met we had instant chemistry and hung out together about everyday going to dinner, shows etc. We have never been intimate away from an occasional kiss here and there (closed mouth).
He's always been someone I could count on for anything and it was obvious that he was interested beyond a friendship. However, we continued being friends, hanging out, occasionally flirting with each other up until my ex and I got back together.
When my ex & I got back together I introduced the two of them and they hit it off quite well. At the time I saw no harm in what I was doing b/c in my head it was dude (friend) and my ex (the one). So I had no qualms about merging the two. After meeting we all hung out a few times and they hung out w/o me a few times. My ex said he felt as tho' dude had a crush on me and he once said something to him <awkward>.
Fast forward since my ex and I have broken up dude is putting the moves on me and has asked me if I was ready to give 'us' a chance? He's been trying to get a face to face date with me but I'm not sure if this is right? I guess writing this thread saids a lot but I just wanted to know what you ladies think? Is this shady?
He's always been someone I could count on for anything and it was obvious that he was interested beyond a friendship. However, we continued being friends, hanging out, occasionally flirting with each other up until my ex and I got back together.
When my ex & I got back together I introduced the two of them and they hit it off quite well. At the time I saw no harm in what I was doing b/c in my head it was dude (friend) and my ex (the one). So I had no qualms about merging the two. After meeting we all hung out a few times and they hung out w/o me a few times. My ex said he felt as tho' dude had a crush on me and he once said something to him <awkward>.
Fast forward since my ex and I have broken up dude is putting the moves on me and has asked me if I was ready to give 'us' a chance? He's been trying to get a face to face date with me but I'm not sure if this is right? I guess writing this thread saids a lot but I just wanted to know what you ladies think? Is this shady?