LovelyNaps26
Well-Known Member
I'm probably being overly sensitive but... I just had a conversation with a guy who I connected with online. Once I'm comfortable I speak freely, like I would with any one of my friends. After the conversation I began to wonder if some references I made to my future as a wife/mother might of made him concerned. For example, we were talking about sports and I mentioned how excited/obnoxious I can get when watching basketball. I then said that I should probably have all girls (obviously joking) because I would be one of those crazy sports moms.
That fact that this guy and I don't know each other from Adam, makes me wonder if I should intentionally avoid "pressure" topics, such as marriage and parenting in the initial talking stages. I wasn't thinking about having his children (I don't know the dude), but do guys get worried about stuff like that?
Do you ladies avoid talking about certain things before you know you're relationship is actually going "somewhere"? What do you avoid talking about pre- officially dating?
That fact that this guy and I don't know each other from Adam, makes me wonder if I should intentionally avoid "pressure" topics, such as marriage and parenting in the initial talking stages. I wasn't thinking about having his children (I don't know the dude), but do guys get worried about stuff like that?
Do you ladies avoid talking about certain things before you know you're relationship is actually going "somewhere"? What do you avoid talking about pre- officially dating?