ladylibra_30
Well-Known Member
to want his mom not to call/text your man if (it's never been an emergency) -
1 - he lives with her and she will be seeing him when he gets home
?
2 - you go on a 2 day trip with him and she will be seeing him when he comes home
?
3 - he's watching tv at your place and she texts to say Wipe Out is on so he can watch
?
4 - to drag your feet about moving in w/him b/c you fear she'll be privy to too much info/ as well as have influence re: your household? He'll give her monetary hand-outs (when that's his purpose of going back home in the first place) that could be recycled in your household? Because you'll feel guilty that she may fall without his continued financial support but you want her to handle her business?
5- that you've told him these things and you won't go forward w/the relationship because you don't trust his word that he can respect the mama vs lady boundaries?
6 - think of a eligible bachelor in your family to introduce her to so she can leave her surrogate son-hubby the heck alone?
So, honestly, is it unreasonable?
1 - he lives with her and she will be seeing him when he gets home
![Lachen :lachen: :lachen:](/smilies/lachen70.gif)
2 - you go on a 2 day trip with him and she will be seeing him when he comes home
![Lachen :lachen: :lachen:](/smilies/lachen70.gif)
3 - he's watching tv at your place and she texts to say Wipe Out is on so he can watch
![Lol :lol: :lol:](/smilies/lol.gif)
4 - to drag your feet about moving in w/him b/c you fear she'll be privy to too much info/ as well as have influence re: your household? He'll give her monetary hand-outs (when that's his purpose of going back home in the first place) that could be recycled in your household? Because you'll feel guilty that she may fall without his continued financial support but you want her to handle her business?
5- that you've told him these things and you won't go forward w/the relationship because you don't trust his word that he can respect the mama vs lady boundaries?
6 - think of a eligible bachelor in your family to introduce her to so she can leave her surrogate son-hubby the heck alone?
So, honestly, is it unreasonable?
Last edited: