Kkinds
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So, I've never had a bf that lived with me because I'm personally against shacking. Not judging at all, but I never want my bf to feel to like he can get all the incentives of a marriage without being married to me. You know the old saying "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free" lol! But people always say you have to live with someone before to really know them. I have friends who are married and they didn't live with their hubbys until marriage and got some unpleasant surprises. I also have other friends who decided to break off engagements or end relationships when they actually stated living with the person and saw their true colors. What are your opinions?!