Okay, I know this may be a dumb question. But I've never really paid much attention to the various nuances of relationships. As a matter of fact, I'm in my first (semi?) serious relationship at the age of 26 (by personal choice).
Anywho, so around about the time I turned 25, I noticed alot of people around me had fiances. I mean like everyone. It was like "fiance" was the new "boyfriend". But none of these females had ringserplexed. I mean, I know not everyone is balling, and maybe their dudes can't afford rings right now or whatever (most of these people were fresh out of undergrad or still in grad school), but I mean, at what point do you start calling a dude your "fiance"???
For example, this one chic I knew of was going around calling her man her fiance. Me and him go way back, and when I asked him about it, his response was "well, we're really close".
Like, just because a man had a convo with you about the possiblity of marriage doesn't mean he's your fiance but I'm wondering if thats what some of these females are doing???
Anywho, so around about the time I turned 25, I noticed alot of people around me had fiances. I mean like everyone. It was like "fiance" was the new "boyfriend". But none of these females had ringserplexed. I mean, I know not everyone is balling, and maybe their dudes can't afford rings right now or whatever (most of these people were fresh out of undergrad or still in grad school), but I mean, at what point do you start calling a dude your "fiance"???
For example, this one chic I knew of was going around calling her man her fiance. Me and him go way back, and when I asked him about it, his response was "well, we're really close".
Like, just because a man had a convo with you about the possiblity of marriage doesn't mean he's your fiance but I'm wondering if thats what some of these females are doing???
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