TinyBlu
Well-Known Member
Ok.... that's about as politically correctly as I could put it.
Story: Woman determines that her "list" may be a little too long and demanding and opts for a gentleman that treats her well. The clincher: they are less than compatible in bed.
Here's my issue... this guy is really nice and sweet. He was actually very patient and waited until I was ready to enter the physical part of the relationship. He's very loving and attentive... believes in a lot of caressing... a great kisser... BUT
(clearing throat) He STOPS at the belly button... get my drift?
add that to the fact that he's not "blessed" in the lower regions and you have a recipe for sexual frustration.
I've researched positions and even found snugger fit prophylactics to help with the size issue, but he STOPS AT THE BELLY BUTTON!!!
I have tired of the guys that can make me scream their names in ten languages but treat me as member of their personal harem, and this guy really is sweet, BUT... I'm not getting what I need sexually.
Where's the balance in compromise? Is it too much to ask for someone to please my body AND take care of my heart?
Real talk... if he would move a little lower, I could easily excuse the lack of size.
Is there a tactful way to approach the subject?
BTW... I am very open minded about this act and have no problems engaging, BUT its a two way street. Hence, I stop at the belly button as well...
Never had this issue....
Story: Woman determines that her "list" may be a little too long and demanding and opts for a gentleman that treats her well. The clincher: they are less than compatible in bed.
Here's my issue... this guy is really nice and sweet. He was actually very patient and waited until I was ready to enter the physical part of the relationship. He's very loving and attentive... believes in a lot of caressing... a great kisser... BUT
(clearing throat) He STOPS at the belly button... get my drift?
add that to the fact that he's not "blessed" in the lower regions and you have a recipe for sexual frustration.
I've researched positions and even found snugger fit prophylactics to help with the size issue, but he STOPS AT THE BELLY BUTTON!!!
I have tired of the guys that can make me scream their names in ten languages but treat me as member of their personal harem, and this guy really is sweet, BUT... I'm not getting what I need sexually.
Where's the balance in compromise? Is it too much to ask for someone to please my body AND take care of my heart?
Real talk... if he would move a little lower, I could easily excuse the lack of size.
Is there a tactful way to approach the subject?
BTW... I am very open minded about this act and have no problems engaging, BUT its a two way street. Hence, I stop at the belly button as well...
Never had this issue....