In your opinion, do all men cheat?

[MrsAriannaAmbers]

I don't think it has anything to do with gender, I think that most people cheat. I've never been faithful in my life! I'm trying to work on that because I do want to settle down one day, and I know that my future husband deserves better than that.

I do know alot of females cheat...moreso then the men...but they just don't ever tell... I think its that "everything has to be perfect on the outside"...so I give them *side eye* and pretend right along with them and act surprised when their husbands call me saying that...Dairy Queen just towed her car and she is nowhere to be found!?!...No, I didn't know she got arrested last night...She was over here and we went out???...yea I remember...Did she take me to the Japenese Steakhouse...yea, that was me...we drank up the bar and went and got a room at the hotel across the street...

Well I do know one that shares her trysts but women overall just don't tell anyone and most don't even tell their BFF. They will keep it to themselves...and KIM...BW as a whole have been taught "neva air out ya dirty laundry" so women cheating will never be an honest discussion because too many will keep it cute and never admit.

 

[Supervixen]

I'm in the minority on this one.

 

[loved]

I think that most men cheat, especially in their younger years, which would be the time before their bodies begin to break down. It seems that as men age & they need their partners for care, doctor's appointments, etc., they see the value in what they have at home.

 

[madamdot]

I do know alot of females cheat...moreso then the men...but they just don't ever tell... I think its that "everything has to be perfect on the outside"...so I give them *side eye* and pretend right along with them and act surprised when their husbands call me saying that...Dairy Queen just towed her car and she is nowhere to be found!?!...No, I didn't know she got arrested last night...She was over here and we went out???...yea I remember...Did she take me to the Japenese Steakhouse...yea, that was me...we drank up the bar and went and got a room at the hotel across the street...

Well I do know one that shares her trysts but women overall just don't tell anyone and most don't even tell their BFF. They will keep it to themselves...and KIM...BW as a whole have been taught "neva air out ya dirty laundry" so women cheating will never be an honest discussion because too many will keep it cute and never admit.

I agree. I think I know more women cheaters than men. There are so many little kids who "father's" are not thier biological fathers - but no one talks about it. It's like its less of a scandal or something . . . barely registers on the cheat-o-meter.erplexed

 

[ambergirl]

^^^ I don't think more women cheat then men but I do think there are more women cheaters out there they people think. Within my own circle though it is predominantly men who cheat and it's pretty common.

I don't think cheating typically has anything to do with sex, it's about all the other things people get from people other than their partners finding them desirable.

I don't think all men cheat, but I do think more men would cheat if they thought they could either get away with it or not feel guilty.

 

[cuteazz1]

I don't know about ALL Men,but VEry recently I had a relative stationed near my home with his soldier buddies to do training.This was over Thanksgiving so I went to spend a week with this relative.During this time we(him and Military friends) talked and hung out a lot.The hotel they stayed in was 98% military and the men were 85% married...I tell you there were women coming in and out of that Hotel like crazy.The men would have a lady next to him as he talked to his wife on Skype...I just can't believe some of the things that I heard and saw that week.When his friends tried to talk to me they were told that I was married Most just said "me too." and continued to flirt......I'm not sure if all men cheat but I don't have good thoughts about the men in the Military..from my talks and observations this is normal..they go from place to place lookin for new nookie.My relative told me that he keeps his wife happy by sending her his checks so she pretends not to notice everything else...WOW!

 

[MizAvalon]

No, not all men.

But I do believe that most men in long term relationships, even if they don't actively cheat, most likely have cheated at least once or behaved inappropriately.

 

[Lovely_Day]

I don't think all men cheat. I think that men who have "real love" are faithful, but I've noticed that men get into, and stay in relationships to uphold an image or to fulfill an obligation, when they are with a woman for those reasons...they usually cheat. The guys that I know who are cheating/cheated should've left their current relationship/marriage a long time ago, but for different reasons, financial, children, image,warped loyalty to the spouse...they stay.

 

[NCRapunzel]

Not all men cheat however, there are so many that do, I find it hard not to become a skeptic. I've been APPROACHED by so many married and/or attached men that it's absolutely ridiculous--and they are sooo much more aggressive than single, unattached men! They're truly sad and disgusting. As long as they are cheating, they'll never realize the fullness and beauty that a wonderful, committed relationship has to offer because they're not investing in building up that relationship. Maybe if they put a bit more effort into "taking care of home," "home" just might take care of them! Instead, they choose to be greedy and spread themselves quite thin, offering only a sliver of themselves to whoever is willing to deal with them.

 

[Radianthealth]

I don't think all men cheat. I don't think most men cheat. We just believe that because that's all we hear. We don't hear of the postitive marriage/relationshps because they don't have anything to complain about.

I agree. I grew up around married couples and many couples in long term committed relationships and most of the men in these relationships were faithful.

I think they had the opportunity to cheat, it just wasn't worth it for them.

The majority of my friends are married and only one of them is dealing with infidelity that I know of.

I have found that the women who deal with cheating men knew or should have known what they were dealing with from the get go. The friend who has the cheating husband got with him when he was still living with his baby's mother. The other that I can think of was cheating with him while he was married and then he left his wife to marry her.