chokolate miss
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Okay, I think having crushes are fun...But they can get old don't ya think, LOL!?
I have a crush on one of my classmates. I'm in graduate school.
I think that he is so attractive and we click on so many levels. However, I don't even know if he is attracted to me, if he has a SO, or anything else that would help me out.
I want to ask him questions to get those answers, but I don't want him to start thinking that I'm feeling him, even though I am. But at the same time I want to tell him just to see what he says...
I am confused. He's white BTW. I believe that is one of the reasons why I've been holding back.
Have any of you ladies been in a similar situation? What do you do? I know some women are forward and just come out with it! But I am very shy and would be totally embarrassed if he rejects me. That's why I LOVE crushes! You can live a fantasy, but I'm ready for the real thing!
I have a crush on one of my classmates. I'm in graduate school.
I think that he is so attractive and we click on so many levels. However, I don't even know if he is attracted to me, if he has a SO, or anything else that would help me out.
I want to ask him questions to get those answers, but I don't want him to start thinking that I'm feeling him, even though I am. But at the same time I want to tell him just to see what he says...
I am confused. He's white BTW. I believe that is one of the reasons why I've been holding back.
Have any of you ladies been in a similar situation? What do you do? I know some women are forward and just come out with it! But I am very shy and would be totally embarrassed if he rejects me. That's why I LOVE crushes! You can live a fantasy, but I'm ready for the real thing!