IMFOCSD
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I met this wonderful man back in April and we have been seeing each other everyday since then. He is so smart, funny, loving, caring, generous and he treats me so good. We live in Cleveland, OH and there is not much opportunity here. He had been talking about going to visit his father in Dallas, Texas and was not sure if he was going to stay or not. He left Friday evening and I miss him so much. I cry every time I think about him. Friday before he left I let him use my car while I was at work to take care of his business and say good bye to his family. He came up to my job on my lunch brake and we talked and cried together. I did not think him leaving would hurt me so bad but it does and he feels the same way. It took him 28 hrs to get to Texas and he called me every chance he got. He called my on someones phone and began crying and telling me how good of a woman I was and how no woman has ever been there for him like me. He wants me to move to Texas with him once he gets his self together. Me and him are so close we went everywhere together and did everything together everyday he was here in Cleveland. I have 3 kids and he has 2 kids here in Cleveland. I have been wanting to leave Cleveland for a while. Things are not looking up here and I just want a better life for me and my kids. He is a very ambitious and determined person who is not afraid to take chances to get to the top. He told me that he is making this move to get his self together for him and his daughters as well as me and my kids. He wants us all to be together as a family and he wants to be able to take care of all of us the way a man is supposed to. I love his daughters and he loves my kids and has done so much for them and with them. When their father did not want to step up and do his part as far as watching them and picking them up from daycare or taking them to daycare my man was there to help me out. When me and my kids were hungry he took care of us. I am seriously thinking about moving to Texas. If things don't work out (which i'm sure they will) I can always move back to Cleveland. So the plan is to start looking for a place in Texas around income tax time. The only thing is my oldest son is so attached to his father and it will be extremely hard for him. There father is a different story he is mean, selfish, disrespectful towards me and he does not help me out with my kids like he should. He is not working or going to school...he is really not doing anything constructive with his life. My youngest two kids really don't care either way they are 2 and 6. My oldest is seven and he is such a daddy's boy. There were so many times I had to listen to him cry because his father told him he was going to come and get him and never showed up or my son would call him asking to see him and he said no...things like that.
Anyway I'm about to stop ranting. I just love my man so much and I miss him like crazy. I think us 2 together can make really good moves for each other and our kids. We have so much in common as far as determination, drive and motivation. He actually pushes me to take that extra step to get things done. He is a good man and person and I want us to be together and make things happen.
Thanks so much for listening everyone.
Anyway I'm about to stop ranting. I just love my man so much and I miss him like crazy. I think us 2 together can make really good moves for each other and our kids. We have so much in common as far as determination, drive and motivation. He actually pushes me to take that extra step to get things done. He is a good man and person and I want us to be together and make things happen.
Thanks so much for listening everyone.