CurliDiva
Well-Known Member
IMO, many (not all) women ignore solid WARNING SIGNS about a man's character or behavior in the beginning just to date or have a "man" only to cry the blues later after he did them "wrong."
I have a story to share: (sorry this is long, but I’m still in shock)
A engaged girlfriend wanted to set me up with one of her (a therapist) co-worker. She called me last week, and mentioned that he was very tall, attractive, great personality with a fun sense of humor. She asked if it would be ok to give him my cell number.
I am single, so I said it was ok. He called me yesterday. We talked and the conversation went very well. He asked for my email address so that I could check out his my space (his photos) and side business website. After learning about my design background, he mentions that he need help designing a logo for his side business. He is a freelance photographer, and told me he does event photography such as promotional shows, celebrity events, etc. The phone conversation ended with him inviting me to meet for drinks and dinner when available.
I opened his email this morning.
His myspace page was NORMAL – photos of him and his friends, the celebrity photos, etc. He is cute! I clicked on the link to his side business and to my surprise – PORNO! I can’t say what the first page showed but it was HARDCORE. I not talking about just nudes… there were people in the acts showing everything.
I was DISGUSTED!![Mad :mad: :mad:](/smilies/mad.gif)
I call my friend – to tell her about the freaky co-worker! Her reply….oh do not hold it against him, he is a NICE guy. I am mad that she would say some stupid mess like that to me!
I email him back with quickness to say thanks but no thanks!
Being a porno king is a WARNING SIGN I will not ignore!![Nono :nono: :nono:](/smilies/nono.gif)
I have a story to share: (sorry this is long, but I’m still in shock)
A engaged girlfriend wanted to set me up with one of her (a therapist) co-worker. She called me last week, and mentioned that he was very tall, attractive, great personality with a fun sense of humor. She asked if it would be ok to give him my cell number.
I am single, so I said it was ok. He called me yesterday. We talked and the conversation went very well. He asked for my email address so that I could check out his my space (his photos) and side business website. After learning about my design background, he mentions that he need help designing a logo for his side business. He is a freelance photographer, and told me he does event photography such as promotional shows, celebrity events, etc. The phone conversation ended with him inviting me to meet for drinks and dinner when available.
I opened his email this morning.
His myspace page was NORMAL – photos of him and his friends, the celebrity photos, etc. He is cute! I clicked on the link to his side business and to my surprise – PORNO! I can’t say what the first page showed but it was HARDCORE. I not talking about just nudes… there were people in the acts showing everything.
I was DISGUSTED!
![Mad :mad: :mad:](/smilies/mad.gif)
I call my friend – to tell her about the freaky co-worker! Her reply….oh do not hold it against him, he is a NICE guy. I am mad that she would say some stupid mess like that to me!
I email him back with quickness to say thanks but no thanks!
Being a porno king is a WARNING SIGN I will not ignore!
![Nono :nono: :nono:](/smilies/nono.gif)