Ignoring WARNING SIGNS

[Blackoutzangel05]

My friend called me back to say that she KNEW about the porno! She said that forgot to "warn" him that I am not into that kind of stuff! Again, this was some hardcore, nasty stuff. WTF, so she was going to tell him to lie to me? This "friend" is now on my "watch" list!

Definitely should be on the "watch" list.....

 

[Covergirl5906]

I agree with the bolded. My best friend is the same way. She will hold on to a man to the bitter end (and support him financially too) As soon as I see red flags, I jump ship. I don't think I should give myself a headache to hold on to a man.[/quote]



Ditto ... especially in the beginning I am not even going to waste my time trying to figure this and that out .....if something is funny or shady etc......I am out!!!!I have better things to do with my time than to rationalize bad behavior!!!!!!!

And I agree with the OP...I would have cut him too...don't have time for that type of foolishness

 

[Je Ne Sais Quoi]

Wah chicka wah wah

Sorry LOL.

That is off the hook! I would have been taken aback too. erplexed

 

[naijaGal]

I've got one. A friend of mine, not close we just went to the same church a while ago. Well she found out her husband was bi-sexual.

When we all heard abt it we felt for her and their son. Because of the type of church we attended his actions were really frowned upon and he got a lot of flack not just for being bi but also for what he was putting his family through. Long story short, this was all the stuff coming from the wife. So eventually the husband is asked to state his case. To my surprise the guy held his hand up and all that. Said he accepts he's broken up the family but he couldn't understand why she was surprised.

He said he left homosexual mags and videos lying abt and there was always lubricant's to be found in his briefcase. Talk abt ignoring warning signs.

So she was challenged abt this, and what's her response, well, I didn't expect it to have anything to do with him, he's a xtian, we don't do that sort of thing.

Honestly, I know she was in pain, but I kinda thought to myself she had it coming.

 

[Integrity]

I've got one. A friend of mine, not close we just went to the same church a while ago. Well she found out her husband was bi-sexual.

When we all heard abt it we felt for her and their son. Because of the type of church we attended his actions were really frowned upon and he got a lot of flack not just for being bi but also for what he was putting his family through. Long story short, this was all the stuff coming from the wife. So eventually the husband is asked to state his case. To my surprise the guy held his hand up and all that. Said he accepts he's broken up the family but he couldn't understand why she was surprised.
He said he left homosexual mags and videos lying abt and there was always lubricant's to be found in his briefcase. Talk abt ignoring warning signs.

So she was challenged abt this, and what's her response, well, I didn't expect it to have anything to do with him, he's a xtian, we don't do that sort of thing.

Honestly, I know she was in pain, but I kinda thought to myself she had it coming.

OMG!!!!!!

did he also leave the clues about BEFORE the marriage? Why didnt he attempt to discuss this before they got married?

 

[naijaGal]

OMG!!!!!!

did he also leave the clues about BEFORE the marriage? Why didnt he attempt to discuss this before they got married?

I'm not sure if he did. We only got to hear abt it whan they split up. But once folks knew the full story a no. of us said she should have tackled the situation earlier. To be honest, I think she knew all along