PopLife
Well-Known Member
...would you walk over and say something or wait for your SO/DH to nip it in the bud?
This weekend I was in a situation like this. I was out with my SO and we were both mingling with other people when I saw a woman go over to him and engage him in conversation. I could tell thru their body language that she was flirting and he was uncomfortable (probably cause he felt my stare of death glaring into the back of his neck ).
I opted not to go over there and sit back to see what he was going to do. For "his" sake ,he did cut the woman off by pointing over to me and asking her if she had met his girlfriend. She finally got the hint and backed off.
When I relayed the story to my friend she felt like I should have walked over there and said something. Not necessarily cause a scene but just make my presence known. I can see the point she is making but is it really the woman’s job to shut these situations down? Now I'm kind of second guessing my reaction to the situation and feel like maybe I should have said something...thoughts?
This weekend I was in a situation like this. I was out with my SO and we were both mingling with other people when I saw a woman go over to him and engage him in conversation. I could tell thru their body language that she was flirting and he was uncomfortable (probably cause he felt my stare of death glaring into the back of his neck ).
I opted not to go over there and sit back to see what he was going to do. For "his" sake ,he did cut the woman off by pointing over to me and asking her if she had met his girlfriend. She finally got the hint and backed off.
When I relayed the story to my friend she felt like I should have walked over there and said something. Not necessarily cause a scene but just make my presence known. I can see the point she is making but is it really the woman’s job to shut these situations down? Now I'm kind of second guessing my reaction to the situation and feel like maybe I should have said something...thoughts?