If he died tomorrow?

**SaSSy**

**SaSSy**

3rd Big Chop on 7/18/2016
If an ex died today or tomorrow would you truly care and make an effort to go to his funeral and get in touch with his family? Or not go.

If you broke up on bad feelings would you put that behind you? or not?
 
all of my exes (except fr one) i like as people they were all lovely characters and i dont harbour bad feelings for them at all and wish them well, if my first bf died i would be heart broken because he is a man destined for big things ...one of them id be very sad as well cause he now has a family and a baby girl

the except one well i do have bad feelings towards him i've moved on from him as in i dont have feelings for him but i struggle with forgiving him for what he did that is why i have negative feelings and honestly if he died i wouldnt cry...i doubt i'd even care
 
I would go to view the body, but not the actual funeral. That moreso would seem for family/friends and his current love interest.
 
I doubt I'd go.
Depending on what ex it is.
Not that I don't care that they die.
It's just that it's not necessarily my place to go.
I might go to the repast, but that's about it.
 
I have an ex that I'm incredibly close to and I would go to his viewing, funeral and whatever else. We have had our ups and downs over the years but that doesn't negate what we have meant to one another.
 
I might go and view. I couldn't see myself going to the funeral, especially if he were married or had a serious SO.
 
Sassyb4Classy said:
If an ex died today or tomorrow would you truly care and make an effort to go to his funeral and get in touch with his family? Or not go.

If you broke up on bad feelings would you put that behind you? or not?
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I don't have any true bad feelings for any of my ex boyfriends. All of them are good hardworking black men. I'd go to his funeral and give some type of food to contribute to the family.
 
If it's the love of my life (my first ex) they'd have to bury me with him. I would be crushed beyond belief. If its my second, I wouldn't care wouldn't go to a service, wouldn't send a card, nothing.
 
drasgrl said:
If it's the love of my life (my first ex) they'd have to bury me with him. I would be crushed beyond belief. If its my second, I wouldn't care wouldn't go to a service, wouldn't send a card, nothing.
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Why aren't you still with him, then, if I may ask?
 
drasgrl said:
If it's the love of my life (my first ex) they'd have to bury me with him. I would be crushed beyond belief. If its my second, I wouldn't care wouldn't go to a service, wouldn't send a card, nothing.
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Damn, that's serious.......

I only have that one ex that I really resent, but if something happened to him, it would hurt me deeply.

Most of my other exes are still good friends so I would go, I don't care if they're married, have SOs, whatever. The only reason I wouldn't go was if I couldn't handle it emotionally.
 
my first love yes I would go to pay my respects to view the body and give my condolences.

My son's father yes I would do the same as well!
 
Interesting thread. I don't have any type of exes where I wouldn't go to there funeral if I knew they died.
 
I don't know. I'm on friendly terms with all of my exes but I don't know if I would go out of my way for a funeral. It depends.
 
Ex husband - I wouldn't go to the funeral but I would send a card. We have no kids.

Ex bf - I'd feel nothing
 
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