How quickly these threads turn. Hm.
And to answer op, he pays. I would have sex too cuz my hoe ass would probably already been ass up, face down a few times already by then
So with most of you having established the fact that he should pay for everything since he invited you what are you offering for the gift. In most cases if guy spends that kind of money or asks you to go on an overnight trip and he's paying he probably thinks (not all guys) that he will get some bedroom benefits during the trip.
Would love to hear from you all!
But you're not the pursuer. When the last time you asked a man on a trip?
Exactly.
As women you shouldn't even have to carry money. Of course that's unrealistic, in case you have to escape or God knows what else but it's the principle.
It's so simple lol
I don't pay for anything
I don't even pretend like I'm going to pay.
I will stare men down until I see that wallet come out the pocket.
I don't even split entrees wtf, buy me mine and I'll take some to go
If I valet my car he better pay on pick up. AND TIP.
If he don't wanna pay, then he don't wanna date.
If I drive for longer than 15 minutes I'm asking for gas money
I look confused AF if money even comes into the conversation. All of a sudden yo no hablo ingles motherfucker.
My expectation is to be pampered and to not worry about a thing. If he can't achieve that then you need to go ghost
Talmbout 50/50
If I told him there's a 50/50 chance of pussy if he pays for everything then fools would refinance they houses, sell they cars. I know my power and it ain't FREE OR 50/50
As women you shouldn't even have to carry money. Of course that's unrealistic, in case you have to escape or God knows what else but it's the principle.
It's so simple lol
I don't pay for anything
I don't even pretend like I'm going to pay.
I will stare men down until I see that wallet come out the pocket.
I don't even split entrees wtf, buy me mine and I'll take some to go
If I valet my car he better pay on pick up. AND TIP.
If he don't wanna pay, then he don't wanna date.
If I drive for longer than 15 minutes I'm asking for gas money
I look confused AF if money even comes into the conversation. All of a sudden yo no hablo ingles motherfucker.
My expectation is to be pampered and to not worry about a thing. If he can't achieve that then you need to go ghost
Talmbout 50/50
If I told him there's a 50/50 chance of pussy if he pays for everything then fools would refinance they houses, sell they cars. I know my power and it ain't FREE OR 50/50
I've been called a gold digger plenty of times. Every single time it's been by some BROKE ARSE FOOL. I've always been taught if he's calling you a gold digger take it as him calling you a bytch. He is calling you out of your name. Also he's showing is arse. How can I be a gold digger when you ain't got NO gold?! KIM ladies....KIM
As women you shouldn't even have to carry money. Of course that's unrealistic, in case you have to escape or God knows what else but it's the principle.
It's so simple lol
I don't pay for anything
I don't even pretend like I'm going to pay.
I will stare men down until I see that wallet come out the pocket.
I don't even split entrees wtf, buy me mine and I'll take some to go
If I valet my car he better pay on pick up. AND TIP.
If he don't wanna pay, then he don't wanna date.
If I drive for longer than 15 minutes I'm asking for gas money
I look confused AF if money even comes into the conversation. All of a sudden yo no hablo ingles motherfucker.
My expectation is to be pampered and to not worry about a thing. If he can't achieve that then you need to go ghost
Talmbout 50/50
If I told him there's a 50/50 chance of pussy if he pays for everything then fools would refinance they houses, sell they cars. I know my power and it ain't FREE OR 50/50
Pretty much!!!
When I was dating I never allowed a serious potential to come to my house without bringing something
A case of water, some groceries, wine or etc whatever it was I needed or was low on
You coming empty handed is a no for me
My father taught me men should always have something to bring when he comes over!
It's the same till this day, brother, uncle or cousin
Ditto on everything you listed
Gas money definitely
And not for nothing my dates would pick me up and drop me back home
After being vetted. I don't believe women should do a ton of driving if she has a man, no!
Also when I went to dinner I ordered appetizers, entree desert... You name it I ordered it lolol
I never spare my wants or needs for anyone, my happiness is key here!
Happy me equals happy you!
If you wanna roll with lux this is how it go
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My boyfriend and I are young professionals. I plan all of the vacations because I think it's fun. We're long distance so we each pay for our flights wherever we're going. He usually pays 2/3 of the hotel. He also pays for all of our food and drinks on vacation.
So then they had to argue about "I didn't ask you to do this"..."well you ate".... Ridiculous. I LOL'd the whole time she was telling me, but how disgusting to treat your wife that way. I don't understand these "men".
Even if I'm the one suggesting a trip to an SO or someone I'm dating, they know that means this is where I want YOU to Take Me... I don't understand what kinda man wouldn't pay. My FH is not a rich man; if he couldn't afford to pay for the whole shabang, he'd just stay home. Where's the masculinity in splitting a bill with your woman?
It's so odd to me that these dilemma's have never come up for me in real life. Even men I've dated who were otherwise trifling, have never expected me to pay for anything. It's never even come up. Maybe it's because I've only really dated alpha men with big egos.
I have a coworker (white) in her late 40's she's been with her husband for 13 years; married for 3, and they split EVERYTHING 50/50--rent, bills, groceries, trips, etc. I'm not judging that, because I know a lot of couples do, but he really nickels and dimes her. She recently came home and he'd gone grocery shopping; he cooked her a great meal, but afterwards... He brought out the grocery bill... Asking for her half...For the surprise dinner he cooked for her...
I love you! Just wanna bottle you up and keep you with me
He ain't entitled to nothing except my pretty presence. That's the gift.So with most of you having established the fact that he should pay for everything since he invited you what are you offering for the gift. In most cases if guy spends that kind of money or asks you to go on an overnight trip and he's paying he probably thinks (not all guys) that he will get some bedroom benefits during the trip.
Would love to hear from you all!
Ikr!?
I actually agree with this. But I'm still not going half.
If he don't got it, we can't spend it. That's why I make sure he got it. 
I'm sorry what?have a coworker who says she goes out and shovels the sidewalk and the driveway when it snows because her husband "doesn't do snow".
I can't even compute this. And A husband who gives me a bill for the groceries I can't even, I can't imagine that . They would never get sex, that is a turnoff. If I don't nickel and dime when out with friends there is no way I'm doing it with someone. I'm dating
