miss stress
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My daughter has alwys had issues with her hair. It never grew past a certian point and at one point in time, she had even pulled bald spots in it. That was b4 I found the hairboards. Anyway, she's 3 and natural (of course) and currently doing the crown and glory method using braids. So yesterday I was taking down her latest install and thinking to myself how proud of myself I am cause her hair really has turned around and dh looks at her big natural afro and says to me," she's lucky I'm not her only parent." I found that weird so I ask why and he replies," cause I would have relaxed her hair a looong time ago! Look at it its so unmanageable!"
It literally took every fiber in my being to keep me from slapping him that was the most ignorant mess anyone has ever said to me and abt my baby?
What kind of self hating FATHER would relax a freakin 3 yr old? On the other hand, I know where it comes from because his mother and sisters r just like him If a black woman has long hair it must be a weave or she's mixed and at the times whn I let my daughter rock her afro as opposed to the braids, they make me seem like the laziest mother in the world for not "doing" her hair.
I hate this world!
anyway here r some shots of when I took down her braids yesterday, and then some from when we first found lhcf and some of the braided styles she's worn
It literally took every fiber in my being to keep me from slapping him that was the most ignorant mess anyone has ever said to me and abt my baby?
What kind of self hating FATHER would relax a freakin 3 yr old? On the other hand, I know where it comes from because his mother and sisters r just like him If a black woman has long hair it must be a weave or she's mixed and at the times whn I let my daughter rock her afro as opposed to the braids, they make me seem like the laziest mother in the world for not "doing" her hair.
I hate this world!
anyway here r some shots of when I took down her braids yesterday, and then some from when we first found lhcf and some of the braided styles she's worn
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