.:Eden:.
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That there's this male customer that comes into my job everyday, and whenever he sees me he says "hello beautiful". The customer asked me if I have a boyfriend, I said yes and he says "oh he must call you beautiful everyday".
I didn't answer his question, because it kind of caught me off guard that I was getting called beautiful everyday by a guy had no interest in, more than my bf.
So I told my bf that I didn't like that this stranger says it more consistently than he does and that I wanted to hear things like that from him over guy(s) that I don't care for.
My bf said he felt hurt by my statement and wanted to take sometime for himself (meaning he doesn't want to talk/see me). He said my statement brought some insecurity and frustration that he wants to deal with.
I feel bad that I hurt him, I was just trying to express to him that I want to hear that from him more. I'm now questioning whether or not I was justified in my statement and if I wasn't how to go about rectifying that.
I didn't answer his question, because it kind of caught me off guard that I was getting called beautiful everyday by a guy had no interest in, more than my bf.
So I told my bf that I didn't like that this stranger says it more consistently than he does and that I wanted to hear things like that from him over guy(s) that I don't care for.
My bf said he felt hurt by my statement and wanted to take sometime for himself (meaning he doesn't want to talk/see me). He said my statement brought some insecurity and frustration that he wants to deal with.
I feel bad that I hurt him, I was just trying to express to him that I want to hear that from him more. I'm now questioning whether or not I was justified in my statement and if I wasn't how to go about rectifying that.