Okay, so how about she was a ball of questions from that day on. I taught her how to prepoo, steam with a towel, and DC properly. Then a few days later she was itching to wash again, so I taught her how to wrap, then airdry with a scarf.
So, yes, she did not even wait to go home to bombard me with questions. I am planning on sending her a care package. Killing her behind with kindness has faired well in the near 13 years with DH. It keeps the drama at bay. Plus there is a bit of satisfaction, because about 2 years ago, she told me that I was killing me hair and when I was stretching.
Well, I think your hair looks fabulous
And since you sending out care packages....
-A
Well, I think your hair looks fabulous
And since you sending out care packages....
-A
:rofl3:WOW! she interrupted you to dis/insult your hair while at the same time envying and admiring your hair.
Now that's the SuperMIL Powers right there...:flyingwit
She thought you were a dirty liar but was pleasantly surprised to find out that you're not.
Wow, Mook, you described it perfectly. The MIL Dichotomy.
Sometimes, I think she wants to like me and she wants to hate me...simultaneously.
The fact that I am polite to her and I keep it drama-free, makes her want to hate and like me even more.
Now, I am adding hair to the mix. Poor boo boo's head is gonna explode.
Oh man she gave you a compliment and didn't even know it!
I would take it with a grain of salt. If I ask you if you have a weave, can I receive a care package too? LOL BTW congratulations! Your baby is so precious!
dealing with MILs is enough hassle without them now having to scrutinize our HAIR
you did good, OP!!
LOL ...some people are so uncouth! You carried yourself well though
@ "I felt her eyeballs x-raying thru my rollers"
LadyEsquire you have beautiful hair. Just goes to show that haterade can infiltrate families as well as co-workers and friends.
My MIL was visiting for about 2 weeks. For the first 6 days, she would constantly make remarks about how my hair grew and how my daughters' hair grew and ..... Then when I washed my hair, upstairs, behind closed doors in my bedroom... 'ole girl came up to investigate my scalp ....when I was setting my with rollers. I felt her eyeballs x-raying thru my rollers.
A few hours later, after I had taken them out, I was in the kitchen and she was in the living room, and we were seperated by a wall.
Her: May I share a confidence with you?
Me: (thinking to myself, O shyt!) Sure.
Her: This entire week, every time we talked about your hair, I thought you were lying. I thought there were at least a few peices of weave in there some where. (Thank goodness she could not see my face.... 'cause I was like ).
Me: Why would I lie to you about something as trivial as hair? I have told you in the past when I was wearing extensions.
Her: Because hair is really hard to grow like you did.
Me: Maybe...but once you learn a few techniques and unlearn bad habits, and....(then she interrupted me)
Her: Especially hair like yours. :eatme:
Me: Hair like mine?????
Her: You know. You do not have the softest hair.
Me: All people can grow hair. Unless one has some sort of scalp disorder...healthy women with all grades of hair can grow it long, if they choose to do so with applying the right techniques.
SILENCE.
Ummmmmm......ok.
What in the heck does having soft hair have to do with the price of tea in China?
So soft hair is a prerequisite to growing long hair? Otaaaaaaaaaay!
LadyEsq, I do not know you, but from your photos and your gorgeous baby, you excude beauty, confidence, and intelligence, and your poor MIL probably doesn't even know where to start with analyzing you. Poor thang!
Seriously Uncouth!!!
Ok, she was wrong for saying that "hair like yours" bit and thinkin' you're a liar but does anybody else think it's cool that she came clean? I think that's kinda cool... granted it could have been done better.
Ok, she was wrong for saying that "hair like yours" bit and thinkin' you're a liar but does anybody else think it's cool that she came clean? I think that's kinda cool... granted it could have been done better.
Yeah I agree. And personally I can't wait til the day when someone thinks I'm lying about my hair. Can't wait to join that club!
But, OP you handled it really well.