I need a guy who is busy . . .
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itsjusthair88
Chronically at BSL -_-
ITA with Glib Gurl...I can't stand to be aroudn eachother ALL THE TIME, we need some part of our lives to be separate and I don't want you to be too busy, but let a sista breathe and you know, do me and you just go and do you and then we'll meet half-way
ambergirl
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Agreed!
But I've found that many of these needy men are also very responsible, less likely to cheat (if they get the attention they need...otherwise they're at high risk for cheating), attentative, and caring.
I'm dealing with one now and I'm doing all I can to not just give up the ghost because I am not one who needs constant together time at. all.
But I've found that many of these needy men are also very responsible, less likely to cheat (if they get the attention they need...otherwise they're at high risk for cheating), attentative, and caring.
I'm dealing with one now and I'm doing all I can to not just give up the ghost because I am not one who needs constant together time at. all.
Pat Mahurr
Pun intended
I'm with you, Glib. I always liked for a man to have other interests, like I do. Have goals to pursue. Have a passion for something other than dating. Then, when we are together, we have something to talk about, ideas to bounce off each other. It keeps us both interested in each other. (Also, it keeps the mortgage paid!)
bunnie82
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Needy chic checking in! I like a guy that is usually available for me/us. I like lots of together time and being up under each other, I still make time for my friends, family and me time. But when I'm in a relationship I prefer being together often.
that doesn't sound needy....that sounds like a normal and healthy relationship...
needy IMO would be absolutely no time for friends or family and 24/7 quality time....that would burn me out....that would be way too much....me no like....
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*CherryPie*
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Clingy men can be annoying, but so can men that's always in the street.
metro_qt
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Needy chic checking in! I like a guy that is usually available for me/us. I like lots of together time and being up under each other, I still make time for my friends, family and me time. But when I'm in a relationship I prefer being together often.
I'm going to cosign with you right here, I love lots of together time, but I'm a great multitasker and can balance the rest of my life and obligations accordingly
Right here with ya! I need a man who has his own friends, his own goals, ambitions and interests that have nothing to do with me and all of which that he is actively pursuing.. . . because I'm realizing that when a guy isn't busy, he is trying to be all up under you all the time and don't understand why YOU are always busy.
Or, maybe I just need to make myself less busy
Nothing wrong with being a needy chick or wanting a needy man, but that just ain't me.
*5+5
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that doesn't sound needy....that sounds like a normal and healthy relationship...
needy IMO would be absolutely no time for friends or family and 24/7 quality time....that would burn me out....that would be way too much....me no like....
Oh gosh that would burn me out and leave me unhappy as well. I'm very family/friend oriented and I'm not one of those chicks that's happy with just having a man that feels like "all I need is my man and I'm goooood"
That's me I'm awesome at multitasking and making time for loved ones. I prefer being up under my man if I'm not doing something with the girls, I would prefer he maintain his friendships as well.
When it comes to the family I like to include my mate unless I'm having mother-daughter time and I hope that he would want to include me during his family time.
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