if i need advice about life i'm going with the sensible 40 year old and not the sensible 22 year old. why? i know plenty of 'smart' 20 year olds. however, i'm a bit more hard pressed to find 'wise' 20 year olds.
c'mon y'all. think back 10 or even 5 years ago. aren't you more "mature"? doesn't mean you were immature before it means that you've grown through life experience. there's just so much experience you can pack in your first 20 years.
no one is saying that just because you're 20 you're stupid. but let's face it we can be more
naive (which i don't think is insulting it's just life). i see 40 year old women go to 80 year olds for advice. ain't nothing wrong getting feed back from more experienced women. shoot, my friends are just as naive as i am. sometimes you need to learn from folks who done lived longer than you have.
i'm wise for my age but when one of my elders say "honey, let me break it down for you" i listen instead of getting offended. i might just learn something