shorthairdiva09
New Member
Yesterday, I told one of my co-workers that I care about another co-worker and have been caring about him for a while. This boy does anything for me without hesitation, for example he picks me up and takes me anywhere I want to go, he picks me up from college and takes me back home and takes me back to college despite the high gas prices, he is just a great person all around. I am happy to have gained an interest in him over the years.
BUT......
You ever been in one of those good friendships where you are scared to take it further than what it is with fear of ruining the pureity of the friendship? I feel safe just caring about him and he feels the same. I don't want to ruin what we have, but I know that my feelings for him are as strong as a relaxer! But have you ladies been in this predicament where you are feeling a close friend and fear taking it further? What have you done in this type of situation? I think it is best I leave it where it is.
BUT......
You ever been in one of those good friendships where you are scared to take it further than what it is with fear of ruining the pureity of the friendship? I feel safe just caring about him and he feels the same. I don't want to ruin what we have, but I know that my feelings for him are as strong as a relaxer! But have you ladies been in this predicament where you are feeling a close friend and fear taking it further? What have you done in this type of situation? I think it is best I leave it where it is.