Silkycoils
Well-Known Member
Hello LHCF Sisters,
I have been on this forum for many years (like at least 14). I've learned everything I need to know (for the most part) from the Hair Forum, and have long stopped visiting.
I am 42, with two adult sons, and have been single most of my adult life. I attract men regularly, but have not met the right one for even dating purposes. I've done a ton of inner work (introspection, journaling, prayer) and outer work as well (refusing to entertain unsuitables), and I firmly believe that my soul mate will present himself. I've been blessed many times over in my life, and I believe that God wants to give me the desires of my heart. I also believe in the Law of Attraction and have manifested many things.
My problem is, how to keep from asking, "Why not me?" or "When will it be my turn?". A friend told me today that another "friend" (we are cool, but not as close now) is getting married. This friend is not too far from my age. I'm genuinely happy for her, but couldn't help feeling a pang in my stomach. I think it's possible to be genuinely happy, yet feel the "absence" in your life. What do you think?
Anyway, I don't like feeling this way, and I'd like some help from you ladies. Thanks in advance.
I have been on this forum for many years (like at least 14). I've learned everything I need to know (for the most part) from the Hair Forum, and have long stopped visiting.
I am 42, with two adult sons, and have been single most of my adult life. I attract men regularly, but have not met the right one for even dating purposes. I've done a ton of inner work (introspection, journaling, prayer) and outer work as well (refusing to entertain unsuitables), and I firmly believe that my soul mate will present himself. I've been blessed many times over in my life, and I believe that God wants to give me the desires of my heart. I also believe in the Law of Attraction and have manifested many things.
My problem is, how to keep from asking, "Why not me?" or "When will it be my turn?". A friend told me today that another "friend" (we are cool, but not as close now) is getting married. This friend is not too far from my age. I'm genuinely happy for her, but couldn't help feeling a pang in my stomach. I think it's possible to be genuinely happy, yet feel the "absence" in your life. What do you think?
Anyway, I don't like feeling this way, and I'd like some help from you ladies. Thanks in advance.