How To Attract A Rich Man

Soooo....I've been dating a venture capitalist for a month now. He's a black male unicore and cocky AF. I don't think he knows exactly how to type me and that makes him uncomfortable. This dude called me a unicorn last night and I immediately thought of LHCF :rofl:.
 
kblc06 said:
Soooo....I've been dating a venture capitalist for a month now. He's a black male unicore and cocky AF. I don't think he knows exactly how to type me and that makes him uncomfortable. This dude called me a unicorn last night and I immediately thought of LHCF :rofl:.
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yasssssssssssssssssssssssssss you keep him on his toes. you give him butterflies. i wanna come to the weddin
 
barbiesocialite said:
Yes I did right intentionally right my profile that way. It was a strategic choice. I knew it'd enhance my profile with the pics but I didn't expect it to become the star. I kean I know I have a way with words hut I didn't know my verbal game had the potential it seems to have in some dudes. Lol


I kid you not I'm actually shocked that these men really be straight up in that like essay. AND THEY READ THE WHOLE THING!!! I get more compliments on ny profile being one of the best they theyve come across than I get fot my porn star knockers. It nakes me feel sone kinda way. Smh. I was just try a put da used car salesman charm on em. I honestly didn't expect so many dudes to pay that much attention to my words in general. Theyre men. Lol. Then come to find out its been a huge factor and primary catalyst for why most of them they wanted to message me to begin with.

Da hell?! Lmao.

They'd be sad to know I almost never read their profilrs. I look at the pics, peep the job then glance over to guesstimate the guap. Shudder if it were the for friends like @PretteePlease and @Layluh reading that is how I probably wouldn't even get most their names.:lachen:


Eta: oh yeah about the last part....while I love my presentation and are generally used to good guys I'm shocked at the level of quality I've been pulling lately. It's crazy. It's refreshing to know there is no shortage of gentlemen in the world. At the same time, I gotta admit I'm definitely swag on fleek lately because I knew I was a catch but had no idea how high my market value seems to have turned out to be. Its been 6 weeks. Chute. Let me keep dating for a few more months folks won't be able to tell me nuttin! Imma be stuntin all over chicks Lmao
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Another "I really like your profile" lol

I swear I need for these men to stop reading all that crappie because they're gonna hold me to it way to much lol
 
PretteePlease said:
yasssssssssssssssssssssssssss you keep him on his toes. you give him butterflies. i wanna come to the weddin
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Haha :lol: We shall see...he's a Cancer, I don't do well with cancers :look:. I'm way too brash as an impulsive Aries and give no f***s. He's so emo and I kinda showed my ass last night, but it didn't seem like a deal breaker, but I told him it was his fault cause he shouldn't have spent $300 on drinks especially when I told him I was a lightweight. He called me spoiled, but I'm like you knew this already :lachen: Deal with it damn it :mad:! I told you who I was, there should be no surprises. And then there was last week. I was at the casino and got super tipsy and was drunk texting him. I tried to let him be the hero and he was on his way to pick me up, but I got impatient and left after I had sobered up :nono: #sigh. One thing I love about Cancers is that they love to put on their cape and play captain save a heaux! Oh and I strongly suspect he's a freak with a capital F :look:. I might have to brush up on that "how to be heaux" thread to get my weight up lol- I'm clueless.

barbiesocialite said:
Sweet baby Jesus!

Is he close to the 9 figure range yet???
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Not sure, but he's definitely 8 figures ( 9 years on wall street) + 1 venture capital/wealth management firm, several restaurant flips, and insurance companies. We were at a pretty high end restaurant next to where I live and it was so interesting watching him read potential clients. I picked the spot because I knew he would like it. I met an older white gentleman there who paid for his meal (and mine, I guess cuz of the nice conversation I provided) with an Amex black card. There are several yacht clubs, etc nearby. His parents are also successful corporate lawyers so unless he pisses them off he should also be getting a hefty inheritance. I'm trying to play this right cuz I think he's in the infatuation stage now. He kept saying last night " Why don't we spend more time together....I really like you". I replied "SOMEBODY'S always super busy" #sideeye.
 
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kblc06 said:
Haha :lol: We shall see...he's a Cancer, I don't do well with cancers :look:. I way to brash as an impulsive Aries and give no f***s. He's so emo and I kinda showed my ass last night, but it didn't seem like a deal breaker, but I told him it was his fault cause he shouldn't have spent $300 on drinks especially when I told him I was a lightweight. He called me spoiled, but I'm like you knew this already :lachen: Deal with it damn it :mad:! I told you who I was, there should be no surprises. And then there was last week. I was at the casino and got super tipsy and was drunk texting him. I tried to let him be the hero and he was on his way to pick me up, but I got impatient and left after I had sobered up :nono: #sigh. One thing I love about Cancers is that they love to put on their cape and play captain save a heaux! Oh and I strongly suspect he's a freak with a capital F :look:. I might have to brush up on that "how to be heaux" thread to get my weight up lol- I'm clueless.



Not sure, but he's definitely 8 figures ( 9 years on wall street) + 1 venture capital/wealth management firm, several restaurant flips, and insurance companies. We were at pretty high end restaurant next to where I live and it was so interesting watching him read potential clients. I picked the spot because I knew he would like it. I met an older white gentleman there who paid for his meal (and mine, I guess cuz of the nice conversation I provided) with an Amex black card. There are several yacht clubs, etc nearby. His parents are also successful corporate lawyers so unless he pisses them off he should also be getting a hefty inheritance. I'm trying to play this right cuz I think he's in the infatuation stage now. He kept saying last night " Why don't we spend more time together....I really like you". I replied "SOMEBODY'S always super buys" #sideeye.
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WOWOWOWOW

you just came and took the trophy! you win! hands down! :worship2:


so the elusive black card. you and @PretteePlease have had one. I need to hunt for one cuz I wanna see it in person too!
 
kblc06 said:
He kept saying last night " Why don't we spend more time together....I really like you". I replied "SOMEBODY'S always super busy" #sideeye.
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in about 2.5 months you need to start telling him you don't have no time to waste and you need stability don't say the M word but soon you must demand it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Put some respek on you last name #whereismyinvite #theattendeesgonberich

barbiesocialite said:
WOWOWOWOW you just came and took the trophy! you win! hands down! :worship2:
so the elusive black card. you and @PretteePlease have had one. I need to hunt for one cuz I wanna see it in person too!
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not only do you have to see it you have to feel it. It is heavy!
 
I'm so envious of all of your stories :cry: but fascinated at the same time!

I've fallen off hard. I'm in a new city and I get overwhelmed when it comes to finding a spot where I can meet quality men (with money :look:). I know they are everywhere in this city (Houston) but I'm a free spirit and don't mesh well with the super serious business types. I've been surrounded by the suit and tie crowd my whole life and I'm over it.

I spend too much time with artists and musicians-- of the starving variety. I'm trying to find a balance. This city is full of the wealthy business types but I'm looking for more of a nerdy, tech type who would rather spend a weekend surfing and sailing in Sayulita or Tulum vs. dinner parties with politicians (though I could do both).

I don't know where to start ladies. I'm more boho than classic so how can I make that work to my advantage?
 
PretteePlease said:
in about 2.5 months you need to start telling him you don't have no time to waste and you need stability don't say the M word but soon you must demand it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Put some respek on you last name #whereismyinvite #theattendeesgonberich



not only do you have to see it you have to feel it. It is heavy!
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I had the pleasure of holding one of those black cards...it is heavy/solid...i need one in my life.
 
UniquelyDivine said:
Ratchet ones can be fun sometimes :sekret:
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Girl he's crazy.:lol:

I just realized this white man pushed this homeless man who was in our face when we were walking down U Street in downtown DC. I don't even want to know how many fights he's been in. I should a known he was nuts when he told me he used to be a heavy metal head.:lachen:


Eta: no, this is not the guy in the Single thread.
 
I was invited to a posh Republican party in Virginia. It's super exclusive in that you need to get wristbands. I have no idea how I'm even going to get it in the city.
 
PretteePlease said:
if a man works at a publicly traded company his salary and bonus are public info :sekret: I shared that yrs ago I will google a mo fo in a minute
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This thread is huge and old. Which means information will have to be repeated.
Anywho, I am tired of asking questions. Want to be at that point where I am sharing experiences.
 
Yoooo.... I surprise myself daily.... so I added to my roster one of biggest black dudes in my city... we talked Saturday night and went on a date last night and I controlled every aspect of that date. He was sweating bullets talking to me. I really underestimate myself y'all. I too plan on setting up some profiles online to put myself out there but at the moment although my life is full of ups and downs and emotional woes my options are getting plentiful. I know that white/other dudes eye me but I haven't really broke into that arena either.
 
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