SurferBabe
Well-Known Member
Hi everyone!
Obviously, as you all can see, I'm new here! This site was suggested to me by someone as a great place to go to get some REAL TALK about relationships among other things.
So here is my dilemma. I'm single because I cannot even get past the first step--that is, actually meeting the guys and having them approach me. I'm at my wits end and have been considering saying "to hell with it" and just approaching men myself!
Don't get me wrong, men approach me all of the time, but they are not the type of guys I would give the time of day. These men are usually out of my age range or the types who approach women for sport. The type of men I like are usually on the shy/awkward side and may steal a glance but getting them to actually approach me is like pulling teeth. When I dabbled in online dating, these men came out of the wood works, but it seems like I have no chance with them in the real world. I'll admit that I don't get out as much as I should, and I'm afraid to hit the town alone. Do you all think that getting out alone will give these guys more confidence to approach? Where should I go, what should I do, and how should I do it? I'm not a huge fan of online dating but that seems to be the only way to get men to approach me. I'm ready to start meeting more men in the real world.
Obviously, as you all can see, I'm new here! This site was suggested to me by someone as a great place to go to get some REAL TALK about relationships among other things.
So here is my dilemma. I'm single because I cannot even get past the first step--that is, actually meeting the guys and having them approach me. I'm at my wits end and have been considering saying "to hell with it" and just approaching men myself!
Don't get me wrong, men approach me all of the time, but they are not the type of guys I would give the time of day. These men are usually out of my age range or the types who approach women for sport. The type of men I like are usually on the shy/awkward side and may steal a glance but getting them to actually approach me is like pulling teeth. When I dabbled in online dating, these men came out of the wood works, but it seems like I have no chance with them in the real world. I'll admit that I don't get out as much as I should, and I'm afraid to hit the town alone. Do you all think that getting out alone will give these guys more confidence to approach? Where should I go, what should I do, and how should I do it? I'm not a huge fan of online dating but that seems to be the only way to get men to approach me. I'm ready to start meeting more men in the real world.